Summary Of Being Perfect By Anna Quindlen

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While the slogan “The pursuit of perfection” might be an effective way to market luxury automobiles, it is not a way to live one’s life. In Anna Quindlen 's speech, “Being Perfect,” she discusses the price of perfection, not in dollars or cents, but in its impact on one 's life. Through powerful anecdotes, symbols, and analogies, she creates a strong connection with her audience and utilizes it to convince them that there is a very high price of pursuing perfection- the loss of oneself. Even the best arguments have no effect on an audience that does not trust the speaker. Many speakers attempt to establish their ethos through mentioning accolades that establish them as experts. While this can build credibility, this type of communication is weaker than one that emphasizes a mutual understanding to create a personal connection. In her opening statement, Quindlen claims that she sees herself as part of the audience (294). She uses …show more content…

When she reflects “Take it from someone who has left the backpack full of bricks far behind. Everyday feels lighter than a feather” she is using symbolism to describe how perfection is limiting (300). The backpack represents the knowledge that one carries with them everyday, and the bricks one 's idea of perfection. These ideas are bricks instead of paper, for they have a heavy impact on one 's life, if one is “being perfect”. Undoubtedly, the weight of such a backpack would prohibit the wearer from doing all types of things, just as living up to the ideals of perfection are limiting. Therefore, when Quindlen claims that “she left the backpack full of bricks far behind” the audience knows that she has given up on “being perfect” and in claiming “everyday is light as a feather” she is proving that her idea is beneficial, which helps convince the audience to change their perspective and reap the same benefits as her

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