Stereotypes Of Lying

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It is not hard to look around today and see all of the lying and deceit that humanity pollutes the air with. Most people go around not thinking about lying, and go along with it anyway, because the majority, including our leaders, do it without second guessing. It is common for many people to think of lying exactly how it is on the surface, not telling the truth. Sometimes it is important to second guess the stereotype of lying and begin to realize that lying is even more prevalent in today’s society than most people might imagine. Looking around today with this mindset would help us make more informed political decisions, better decisions on friends, and better decisions on advancing our lives. Our lives are not horrible places, but if …show more content…

We do it ourselves to make friends by deflecting attention away from ourselves. It is used to “keep anyone from seeing the true me by being selectively blatant” (162). One of the best examples I can think of is starting college. Almost everyone is in the same situation knowing at the most a couple of people. We all start college expecting and wanting to make new friends, but no one knows how without truly lying to others. We put on masks that hide our true selves trying to fit into whatever group of friends we want. We might want to draw attention away from the aspects of ourselves that we think others might not like, but truly this is just lying to others and …show more content…

I know that this example is vague, but I see it as something like choosing what college to go to or picking a career. Colleges work similarly to politicians by thinking that their audience is stupid, and they can say whatever they want to get as many recruits as possible. They might lie by omission by leaving out important statistics about their school or possibly another school. Even though this is all about business with the universities, all I see it doing is tainting our minds with information that is not true and using our tainted minds to get the best of us. Corporations do this a similar way by feeding us false or misleading information to try and get the best candidates

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