Standards Of Beauty In Kiri Davis's A Girl Like Me

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“As a young girl, I already knew the standards for a girl like me” is one of the most poignant lines in Kiri Davis’ respectively titled A Girl Like Me. The line itself is a strong punch to the standards we hold black women specifically in our society, with a sour aftertaste. Throughout the film there are plenty of other jabs involving stereotypes and standards of beauty. One of them being the retelling of how darker shades of black women felt the need to bleach their skin, even at the age of six, to try to fit a mold of black beauty. With these toxic standards of beauty in place, a six-year-old and a twenty-five-year-old can share the same bias that society ingrained in them. They can even say they love themselves—except for the color/shade …show more content…

The results showed favoritism towards the white doll, even with the race of the kid playing with the doll was black. The kids themselves even described the black doll as “bad” and the white doll as “good”. They all had an unconscious bias due to society’s influence that made them choose light over dark. Although, all the interviews describing the expectations of beauty and personality were powerful, there was a point that Kiri made that resonated with me, a white male, the most; Many of the interviewees state that their African culture has been ripped from …show more content…

I couldn’t help but wonder if this is true, because I find it interesting. In A Girl Like Me, the interviewees talked about how black women are thought to be/have the following: a loud mouth, big butt, and breasts. It’s interesting to see what happens if we apply these traits to these races, gender and sexual orientations. As the video states, black girls are held to these standards of beauty, but at the same time you’re a cliché if you possess these traits, almost like a double standard. But of course, there’s now a standard of beauty for the big butt. But if again if a black female is loud/obnoxious and uses slang she is labeled “ghetto”. But if a gay male is loud/obnoxious and uses slang he’s considered “sassy” and possibly effeminate. So, with that becoming mainstream, does that mean if another race has these traits, because its mainstream, are people stealing other people’s cultures unconsciously? There’s an article which talks about this concept titled “Dear White Gays: Stop Stealing Black Female Culture”. The article discussing the issue of black female culture and how it is very prevalent in gay culture. I think the prevalent idea is the same of A Girl Like Me’s; “Race and Gender give us so much, in those exact same ways our gender and race work against our prosperity.” The author also sums up black female identity in mainstream society beautifully,

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