Seidman On Sexuality

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We humans have learnt to become sexual beings where we have let our sexual nature overcome our desires to bond with other humans. ‘Not mere slaves to hormonal changes, but there is no doubt that these changes can have complex emotional and behavioural effects.’ (1) From a young age our hormones have influenced the way we can act with one another. We’re becoming too sexual early on because of our hormones and we are not understanding why we feel the way we do about certain things.

In this essay, I will explore how theorist Seidman believes that ‘We are not born sexual, but learn to be sexual beings.’ By exploring how Sigmund Freud psychosexual development theory proves how Seidman’s statement is correct. I will also be exploring how the …show more content…

Sex is a factor of sexuality which has a huge impact on an individual’s life; as it can connect us more with a person you love or someone you hardly know. But sexuality has many factors such as, gender identity which is when we know that we are either female or male, even if it meant we are man knowing that we are a woman; that would make them transgender. Another factor, is gender roles it’s how we should behave because we are either male or female. Our sexual thoughts, ideas and fantasies also have an impact on our …show more content…

In this stage the focus is the genitals. Freud believed that a boy will experience a complex called Oedipal and a girl will experience a complex called Electra; these complexes are when the child has an attraction to the opposite sex parent. Freud believed that children would cope with this by picking up the values and characteristics of the same-sex parents giving the child a superego.
The fourth stage is the Latent effecting individuals between the ages of 6-11. In this stage the superego is developing; the child would start to develop values and relationships with friends and adults outside of there immediate family.
The final factor of Freud’s theory is the Genital effecting individuals between the ages of 11 and 18 years. In this stage our sexual urges once become active again, meaning the individual becomes interested in developing a strong bond with the opposite sex making us to realise that we have become sexual beings.

In our society and culture, we don’t realise that we are constantly being influenced. We have let forms of media influence us without our knowledge; these elements within our culture can have an effect on our sexual desires. ‘There is growing concern about young people’s exposure to sexual content through television and other electronic media and about its potential effects on their sexual attitudes, beliefs, and behaviours.’

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