Romeo And Juliet Conflicts

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In the play, Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare, conflict takes place all throughout. Such as friend vs foe, family vs family, or parent vs child. One conflict was between Juliet and her father, Capulet. During the play Juliet secretly gets married to Romeo. Juliet was a Capulet and Romeo was a Montague their families were rivals so the marriage was in secret. Capulet thought Juliet was sad over the fact her cousin Tybalt died so he thought the resolution was for her to marry a man named Paris. When him and his wife told Juliet the news she was furious. They forced her into the situation because that's what they wanted not considering Juliet's opinion. This goes along with the theme: parents shouldn't be so controlling. By Juliet's parents …show more content…

When Capulet tells Juliet about the marriage plans she tries to have a say in it but Capulet states "Hang thee, young baggage! Disobedient wretch! I tell thee what---get thee to a church a' Thursday. Or never after look me in the face. Speak not, reply not, do not answer me!" (3.5.161-4). The way Capulet acts show how controlling he is when he said "…, do not answer me!" He doesn't even let Juliet speak a word. Although he is her father he shouldn't decide some of her most important parts of life for her. Other characters from the story like Juliet's nurse tried to calm down the situation because the way he was acting was too extreme, the nurse states "God in heaven bless her! You are to blame my lord, rate her so" (3.5.169-70) This quote shows that it is Capulet causing all the trouble because he is being to controlling and strict. If he let loose Juliet would have mentioned the fact that she was married to Romeo but he was so selfish all he could think about was her marrying Paris like when he said "… get thee to a church a' Thursday." If Juliet could've shared her opinion that whole conflict could've been avoided but instead her parents were being too …show more content…

Since Juliet and her parents were Capulets they were strict about not being involved with the Montagues. Juliet was worried if she mentioned her marriage about Romeo she would be in a lot of trouble. When Lady Capulet mentions to Juliet about the wedding they have planned Juliet attempts to say she loves Romeo when she states “I will not marry yet; and, when I do, I swear, It shall be Romeo, whom you know I hate, Rather than Paris” (3.5.121-3). In this quote she states ”It shall be Romeo, whom you know I hate…” she says that because she is too nervous to actually say she loves him because her parents don’t allow her to interact with Montagues. Although she views them differently than her parents, they are so controlling about what she does and likes so she stays quiet. For Juliet to say she wants to marry Romeo over Paris is really upsetting to her parents because they hate Romeo because he killed Tybalt. This shows how forced the marriage that she says she wants to marry someone her parents hate compared to the person they

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