Robert Frost Home Burial Essay

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In the poem “Home Burial” by Robert Frost, he informs us about a couple that lost their firstborn child. Frost also demonstrates how they deal with their loss in two different way. Amy feels that she is the only one in pain over the loss of their child, she grieves openly. Amy’s husband is fine and is not affected by the loss of their child. Also, the poem illustrates how a death of a child can form a wedge between a husband and a wive.
As a mother it’s naturally for a mom to grieve longer than a father would. The husband clearly doesn’t understand why Amy is still crying about the death of their firstborn child. For one thing, the husband buried the baby in the family graveyard, which is visible from an upstairs window of their house. Frost tells us that “She was starting down, looking back over her shoulder at some fear” (Frost 709). Every day that she walks down that stairway, and the sight of her child grave reopens her grief, making it difficult for her to move on. …show more content…

He performs his everyday task, as if nothing major happen in their marriage. He states, “Three foggy mornings and one rainy day will rot the best birch fence a man can build” (Frost 711). This is an example of a husband who is trying to move forward through his work. Another example, the husband asks Amy “Can’t a man speak of his own child he’ lost?” (Frost 710). In addition to his work the husband tries to get pass their loss by speaking about his child. He does not want to forget about his child, but he has accepted the fact that his child is

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