Polyamory: The Dominant Norm

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Polyamory The dominant norm is a heterosexual monogamous relationship, but throughout many years, many groups of people like the gays, lesbians, transgender, and many more, have challenge this norm. It all started in the 1960’sand 1970’s where there where many societal changes and people wanted to defy the status quo. Before these dramatic changes people keep their relationships and sex life privately, women where not being sexually active unless there were marry, and sexuality was never questioned. The sexual revolutions started in the 1960’s first with the free love movement, which supported casual sexual encounters with little to no commitment. Then in the same period of time there was the second wave of feminist and people experimenting

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