Personal Narrative: A Mother's Identity

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James had a very tough up and coming. His mom is a White jew while his dad was an African american. He didn't really know where he belonged or where he would fit in. A major scene in the book where his Identity is challenged and is forced to compare his mom to the others is when James’s mom went to pick him up at the bus stop. James asked his mom,” Why aren’t you like all the other moms?” He doesn't really understand why his mom looks very different from him. He always grew up with his embarrassing him. She would always ride a bike around in her predominantly Black neighborhood. This was her way to handle the death of James’ dad. She was always different and this leads to James not really finding a group to fit in. It makes his identity very different to embarrass because he didn't ever have a “normal household.” …show more content…

Things James did was more or less dropout of school, hanginout with bad kids, and smoking reefer. This is a physical representation of him trying to find a group to fit into and his trying to make an identity for himself. He didn't have to many options. “ I was finally the king in my house, the oldest kid with the power to boss and torture my younger siblings the way i'd been bose and tortured…” said James in Chapter 14. This is where he is shutting out and away from his family the way his mom did when his Father died. I can relate to James situation because i have been through this personally. I liked to shut out and not really talk a lot about it. Something i have done to really deal with it is doing sports and lifting. These to things help me really clear my

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