Marriage And Marriage In Jane Austen's Pride And Prejudice

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The elaborate characterization in Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice allows the reader to further understand the outcomes of the budding relationships and long marriages which she displays. With these distinguished dispositions comes a complexity that applies to several romances in the novel which emphasize Austen’s theme of marriage for true love. In comparing both the personalities and the relationships of Mr. and Mrs. Bennet to those of Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth, we can see how the contradiction to society's expectations of young women marrying for wealth results in a stronger love, and a happy marriage. Austen’s elaborate characterization of Mrs. Bennett, the mother of five daughters and the wife of Mr. Bennett, is manifested through her tiresome outgoing attitude. Austen describes her character as “a woman of mean understanding, little information, and uncertain temper”(4). She is a woman who does not understand things well, and because of her flamboyant first impressions, and foolish convictions many people, including her husband see her only for her small mind. Mr. Bennet even explicitly affirmed this as “her ignorance and folly had contributed to his amusement”(155). Mrs. Bennett's lifelong ambitions to find her eldest daughters each a suitable husband provokes her foolishness, as she is often unable to see what it right for her children because it is often clouded with her own desire for security after Mr. Bennets death. This single minded pursuit ironically backfires as she lacks the social poise that is needed to assert her daughters in the minds of the intended suitors and ends up repelling them. She desperately tries to instill Jane with a sense of interest for Mr. Bingley and even goes as far as strategically forcing ... ... middle of paper ... ...ld be neither happy nor respectable, unless you truly esteemed your husband; unless you looked up to him as a superior. Your lively talents would place you in the greatest danger in an unequal marriage. You could scarcely escape discredit and misery. My child, let me not have the grief of seeing you unable to respect your partner in life”(240). This private conversation is one of the only instances where Mr. Bennet is an active and supportive father. He is trusting Elizabeth to make the correct decision, as he does not want her to make his own mistake. With this, Elizabeth promises with “repeated assurances that Mr. Darcy was really the object of her choice”(241). Mr. Bennet gives her his blessing and Darcy and Elizabeth have everything they need for a successful marriage; respect, attraction, love and most importantly experience, something Mr. and Mrs. Bennet lack.

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