Loss Of Self Identity In Poetry

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Gwen Harwood and James McAuley interpret loss comparatively in their poems “In the Park” and “Pietà”. The sonnet “In the Park” explores the psychological loss of self identity whereas , contrastingly, “Pietà” illustrates the physical loss of a child and the grief of a father. Although both poems are similar in demonstrating the actuality of loss, they differ in the narrators expression of the idea physically and mentally.

The unnamed mother depicted in “In the Park” has been deprived of her identity by the role of motherhood. Her detachment from society is symbolically illustrated through the imagery of her clothes which are metaphorically “out of date” and through he paralleling her life with the “aimless patterns” her child draws in the dirt. …show more content…

Although twelve months have passed the deep loss associated with his grief remains. The child “Came/Early” into the metaphorical light of life and “lived a day and night.” Sadly the infant dies and with “No one to blame” the loss of his child his grief manifests itself in more pain. The tone of loss intensifies as the loss is further explored by both poets. The woman’s self-loss is illustrated through the attempt of idle chat with an ex love towards whom it was “too late to feign indifference.” The mother does not succeed in convincing him or herself that being a mother is a fulfilling role, when “from his neat head unquestionably rises” a metaphorical “small balloon”. The balloon is an image created by the narrator to represent the ex lovers thoughts of being grateful to not be in relation with her existence. This confusion of emotions is also reflected in the father’s grieving in “Pieta”. McAuley uses the repetition of the word “cannot”, in the verse “I cannot tell you,/I cannot understand”, to stress his lack of understanding of his pain which is alliteratively “… so dark and deep.” The reality of the parents’ anguish does not end at the

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