How Does Cancer Affect My Family

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Cancer is an unforgiving disease that affects countless families nationwide. I have always heard conversations about it here and there. The media would talk about how much it impacts our world today and tell stories of miracles and survivors. However, I never thought my family and I would be affected by it. After hearing it said so many times, it stopped sounding so dangerous, it became something ordinary. However, once I knew that it was going to have an impact on my family it became something more real than I wished it to be. I first found out that Judith, one of my mom’s best childhood friends had cancer, just a few weeks before Christmas. I remember hearing my mom’s voice break as she said it. She was trying to censor the reality of the situation so that my siblings and I would not get upset, but I knew from her disposition that the possibility of Judith passing away from this disease was very real. I cried that night because I did not want to lose her and it hurt to see my mom so fearful and somber. As the year went on, our concern grew. My mom was heartbroken. Judith was her person, her best friend, and now they were losing each other. My mom began praying and sending her get well cards frequently, but Judith’s condition kept declining. Sometimes my mom would travel three hours from New Hampshire to Rhode Island to visit her for either day or weekend trips, trying to spend all the time she had left together. Tragically, Judith passed away not long after. …show more content…

Every time, it is mentioned in the media, in a movie, or in general those memories come rushing back. My mom still gets emotional about the lost of her friend and it continues to hurt me when I see how it continues to affect her. This scholarship would have a significant impact on my ability to attend college and accomplish my academic goals. With your generosity, paying for my education becomes something more

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