Gender Reflection Essay

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I found the topics discussed last week really interesting, that of gender blending, but the genderfuck panel ready caught my attention. I come from a close-minded, religious family that bites into society’s expectations. They remain living in the binary world that has taught us that there are only two acceptable genders, male and female, and as a result everything we do is shaped by that idea. Therefore, my parents reinforced the gender expectations by the way they raised me. They taught me how to act, what I can and can’t say or do and even what to wear. My toys, my clothes, my girl friends all influenced what it meant to be a girl. Growing up I never questioned it, since that was the norm for me; my parents set the perfect example of what …show more content…

Caroline Heldman’s lecture, Confronting Campus Sexual Violence, really opened my eyes. The shocking statistic that one in five college women face assault/rape was a lot to take in. As she stated, college for us women is a risk factor, we face a higher risk that our non-college peers, and that frighten me. After sitting and lecture and taking in all of the statistics, I reflected upon on myself, and everyone I know on this campus, and I could not leave behind the idea that perhaps one of them have gone through that. Nonetheless, as captured in Sexual Assault on Campus: A Multilevel, Integrative Approach to Party Rape by Elizabeth A. Armstrong, Laura Hamilton and Brian Sweeney focus on the high rates of sexual assault on college campuses. Based on their study, they show that sexual assault is a predictable outcome. They focus on the gendered process such as fraternity control every aspect of their parties, in terms of themes, admission, access to alcohol and even the movement of guests (617). On the other hand, women are expected to be nice and grateful guests. Therefore, this demonstrates the idea of power, and how is in control of who and this is what generates room for sexual assault. From a personal experience my freshmen year, I went out with a group of friends, nonetheless, once we got to the fraternity party they only allowed my female friends and I in, and the …show more content…

Nonetheless, it seems like they are contributing to sexual danger by allowing these individuals to do that, and simply ignoring the consequences. Going back to Heldman’s talk, she also brings up the idea the institution have a lot to do with reporting rate, and how they deal with such violent acts. However, she made it clear that institutions tend to underreport rape incidents as a way to not damage their reputations. This got me upset, because it already takes a lot to come out and describe/relive what happened and for the institution not to do anything about it makes me question if they really care about us, or if we are simply our tuition, that does not allow them to help those in need. Furthermore, exploring the topic of domestic violence and sexual harassment, in Gendering Violence: Masculinity and Power in Men’s Accounts of Domestic Violence by Kristin L. Anderson and Debra Umberson study examines the construction of gender within men’s accounts of domestic violence. This study characterizes gender as performance and how man attempt to construct their masculine identities through violence. This once again this reinforces the gender expectations that society has socialized us to believe that, one that paints men are dominant figures and

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