Examples Of Coming Of Age In Catcher In The Rye

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The end of young adulthood is one of the most difficult and confusing times of a person’s life. People begin to leave and change, and one has to decide to move on from being a child and become an adult. This was the dilemma that was faced by Holden Caulfield in The Catcher in the Rye. Holden is a teenager who can not seem to let go of his childhood past and is not quite ready to let go of his innocence yet. However, from all of the influences around him like all of his friends moving on, he is feeling the pressure that society is demanding him to move on. Throughout the novel, Holden tries to come to terms with this idea of “coming of age.” As his friends begin to grow up and leave, and as he is thrown from school to school after each of the …show more content…

Holden strikes up a friendly conversation with these nuns, unlike conversations with any other characters, about Romeo and Juliet, since English is his best subject. Instead of facing rejection like almost all of his other attempts, Holden actually has a conversation with the nuns and even gives them a donation of ten dollars. In response to this, the nun calls him a “very sweet boy,” signifying some acceptance. Even when the nuns have to go, one of the says “I have enjoyed talking to you so much,” and Holden even admits that he enjoyed talking to the nuns as well. Holden was sorry that he did not give more money to the nuns, even though he needed money for a date, because he enjoyed their company so much. When the nuns left, Holden accidentally blew cigarette smoke in their face, but instead of being bitter and mean, the nuns were polite and kind to him when he apologized. This shows that the nuns did accept him in a way, and this overall had a positive effect back on Holden. That effect is seen when his little sister Phoebe asks Holden what he likes in the world, all he can think of is the …show more content…

In an attempt to give a simple, kind, farewell gesture to his history professor, Holden hoped to be given affection, understanding, and acceptance but is instead harshly ridiculed for his abhorrent performance in the class. Holden is completely rejected and even left with the parting words of “Good Luck,” just to metaphorically twist the knife. After Holden has run away, he tries to find acceptance and comfort in a prostitute and even ends up just wanting to talk. However, even though he is paying her for her time, Holden is rejected by the prostitute and beaten severely for not giving her more money. Finally, Holden comes across two nuns that actually show him some acceptance. They enter into a friendly conversation with him, which has rarely been seen in other characters, and even at the end tell him how much they enjoyed talking. This final even had a positive effect on holden that is later seen when his sister asks him what he likes and all he can think of are the nuns. Acceptance is hard to find when the whole world seems to be changing around someone, and as Holden learns this, he also learns that he needs to move forward and let go of the innocence that he holds onto. Once he does that, acceptance becomes no longer

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