Differences Between Sex And Sex, Sexuality, And Formal Values

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Sex is “the average, reliable, biological differences between males and females” (Auleb 1). One biological difference between males and females is in external genitalia: males have penises whereas females have vaginas. Sexuality refers to one 's sexual orientation, sexual behaviors, and capacity for sexual feelings (YourDictionary.com). Someone who is not sexually attracted to anyone may tell others that they are asexual. And sexual identity is one 's conception of themselves in terms of to whom they are sexually and romantically attracted, if they experience sexual or romantic attraction at all (Wikipedia.org). Someone who is attracted to people regardless of gender may identify as bisexual, or as pansexual if they do not adhere to the belief …show more content…

One 's behaviors and attitudes towards sex and sexuality may be governed by their sexual values, of which there are two types. Formal values are what one says they believe; informal values are what one actually does (Auleb 3). If someone says that people should wait until marriage to have sex, that is their formal values. If they abstain from sex until marriage, that is their informal value. Ideally, one 's formal values and informal values are in sync because if they are not, one may find themselves in a situation in which they are unready or unwilling to participate. One 's values do not form in a vacuum and are shaped by their society and culture. Family, religion, school, media, and personal experiences are a few factors that may influence one 's …show more content…

While Kurt displayed some stereotypical homosexual characteristics – he had a high voice and loved fashion and show tunes – he was written to be as complex and flawed as the other characters. Despite coming off as confident and snobby, Kurt dealt with a lot of insecurities, such as keeping his homosexuality a secret and then being the only openly gay individual in his school. His insecurities, however, never caused him to give up on what he wants to do or to question his ambitions. Even as the show went downhill and became a parody of itself, Kurt remained my favorite character because of his strength and willingness to be himself. As embarrassing as it may be, Glee was the show that really encouraged me to learn more about sexuality and sexual

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