Compare And Contrast Dido And The Aeneid

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Erotic love as a physical attraction to another person offers a plethora of different scenarios in how people handle sexual love and attraction. Each Eros experience results in either a positive or negative portrayal of the female lover depending on whether the love exists as forced or natural. Virgil’s Aeneid negatively represents Dido because of her forced erotic love as a result of the interference of the Roman goddess Venus. In the Roman time period, society expects Dido to devote her love towards mourning her dead husband for a year. However, Dido’s love for Aeneas conflicts with her time of mourning for the sole purpose of furthering the destiny of Aeneas in travelling to Rome. Ghismonda, however, in 14th Century Italy, experiences different expectations as a widow because of her ability to remarry right away but her father forbids the action out of his own love for Ghismonda. As a result of her loneliness, Ghismonda actively pursues a hidden lover against her father’s will. Due to the societal expectations of the time periods both Dido and Ghismonda live in, the standards of the time period represent women in both positive and negative connotations. Dido’s erotic love negatively represents Dido because of her …show more content…

Forced erotic love, as compared to the human pursuit of love, appears unnatural and thus negatively represents the lovers because of the inhuman nature of forced love. However, natural erotic love relies solely on the characteristics and wants of the lovers because erotic love originates from one’s selfish desire and later becomes one of passion and love. With so many conditions or clauses within classifying erotic love as positive or not, Eros inaccurately represents women because each situation of erotic love varies in situation and

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