Attachment Style Reflection

Before taking the quiz, I thought my attachment style was avoidant. It turns that I was not correct. I agree and disagree with my results. I agree with my results because sometimes I tend to say things I regret later, but I feel as though it is a guilty conscious that makes me regret what I say. However, I do not feel as though I get easily perturb because I hardly have feelings towards situations that will come back to the other person eventually. I do agree with my results when I take my partner’s behaviors too personally because I usually over think the behavior that was performed towards me. Even though my results are accurate to a certain extent, I feel as though I am avoidant, too. I say I am avoidant because I never open up to my partner because I feel as though I should not open up if my partner does not open up. I also feel as though I am avoidant because I do not worry about being regretted since at some point anyone can be rejected.

My attachment style after taking the quiz was an anxious attachment style. Anxious

Sometimes I never really do not realize who or what I lose in my life since I usually do not mind. However, the main problem that I allow myself to do is always give up my needs in order to please my partner in a relationship. There are times that I realize that I put my needs behind me and sometimes I do not unless I think about what I do. On the other hand, when it comes to my feelings or my mindset I hardly say anything or let everything bypass just so I do not have to hear someone argue with me for what I say. I know it is not alright of me to say I keep my feelings or ideas to myself, but I have too much experience with many people not caring or understand what I say or just think it is simpleminded. Overall, from doing the attachment style quiz, I realized why my actions and personality intertwine with one another and explains why I react to certain situations a certain