Argumentative Essay About Being Single

If you're single and want a loving, caring relationship someday, then it can be a struggle sometimes. This is especially true if you talk negatively about being single. You may not like being single, but if you say things like 'I hate being single!' then you are setting yourself up for some bad stuff. For instance, you can lower your standards as you become desperate for a relationship and end up getting into a relationship that drags you down and makes you miserable. That's why you need to talk to yourself in a way that helps you maintain your standards (and your sanity) as you look for that special someone.

There are people out there who are waiting to meet you. Waiting to love you. You have to stick around for them. Benedict Smith

10 Affirmations

There are so many more elements to your life that define what kind of person you are and what kind of person you are going to be.

6. I'm Worrying About My Happiness Before I Worry About Someone Else's

You can't make other people happy. Just like they can't make you happy. We are all responsible for our own happiness. So if you are not happy as a single person, you will not be happy in a relationship.

It's important to worry about your own happiness and get your life all sorted out before you have to worry about someone else's happiness. It will detract from you being able to focus on yourself, and you may not ever get to really find out what makes you happy.

The good thing is that if you have a positive mentality and feel good about your life, you are going to influence your future partner in a positive way.

Your example may help them develop a similar mentality and attitude towards their life, and that will make your relationship with them amazing! When both people feel happy about themselves, then the relationship runs along a lot smoother.

Happiness comes from within.

Feel gratitude for the little things as well as the big things.

All of this is going to help you be happier as a single person.

9. I Enjoy Forming Close Relationships

Loneliness is bad for your physical and mental health. And if you are lonely and single, there is a high chance you are going to blame being single for your loneliness and resent it with a vengeance.

But, you can be in a relationship and be lonely, by the way. I knew a woman with three kids and a husband who was lonelier than anyone I had ever met.

That's why it's important to make friends and nurture those relationships. It's not about quantity. It's about quality. Close relationships are going to help keep loneliness at bay.

If you feel lonely, then this affirmation is important. The more you tell yourself that you enjoy forming close relationships, the more you will actively get out and find ways to do so. And loneliness will start to become a thing of the past.

10. I Am Lovable

I don't need to know you, I already know that there is a lot to love about you.

You have unique qualities that would enrich other people's lives.

You are a human being and deserve