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Rex Walls
While growing up in life children need their parents to teach them and lead them on the path to a successful future. In the Glass Castle Rex Walls, Jeannette’s father, neglects to take care of his duties as a father figure in Jeannette’s life. In the same way he teaches her to be strong and independent at a very young age. As we read through the story we see the special relationship that Jeannette shares with her father. Even though he, in many instances, failed to protect his children, refused to take responsibility for them, and even stole from them, Jeannette still loved him until his death for two reasons: one, for his ability to make her feel special, and two, because he is a never-ending source of inspiration.
As we go through the stories in the Glass Castle we see the relationships and independence Jeanette builds starting very early in the book when she depicts herself as a little child making hotdogs. When Jeannette was three, her parents allowed her to cook for herself over hot stoves and all. This showed how much her parents put in to developing their independence. “I was wearing the dress to cook hotdogs… then all of a sudden my dress caught fire.”(3) Marie, Jeannette’s mother, completely refuses to take care of her own children. She doesn’t care for her children as any mother should. Any child even at the age of three should not be making hotdogs over a hot oven. This act shows how much independence her father has instilled in her.
Rex is controlling these kids life in a negative way and Marie is just allowing him to corrupt his children. As a mother she is just allows him to do whatever he wants to their children including putting them in harm’s way. Marie is just unknowing of all the wrong, or just blinded...
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...as and dreams and gave his family nothing but a whole bunch of empty promises and empty hope. He has put the idea of a better place to live the “Glass Castle” only to satisfy their constant relocating. In his mind he knows the brilliant home will never be built, but he continues to lie to his children. I honestly feel as though he lies to them so they would not lose faith in him.
Through retelling her stories, many times Jeannette she closes by pointing out how unique her father makes her feel. This is not by what he does, but it is by what he does not do. He allows her to become weak in the moment and then she has to find a way to overcome the weakness at hand. It cannot be denied Rex Walls did some awful things that harmed his children, mostly Jeannette. In the harm that she was put in he built a relationship like no other with her that made her feel so special.
In fact, the glass castle, itself, is the true symbol of Jeannette and her father’s colluded idealism. The perfect fantasy, an escape from authority and responsibility, exists as the goal for Rex Walls and his daughter. When sleeping under the stars, Jeannette remarks, “We could live like this forever.” Clearly, her own childhood innocence has given her idealism a firm ground to be planted in. Later on, as she grows older, Jeannette’s illusions begin to fade, and reality takes root. No longer could she simply dream: she would have to take life seriously and recognize her desires, her obligations, and her own reality. Her idealism became first cracked after she was scolded for rightfully standing up to Erma; after which she said, “Situations like these, I realized, were what turned people into hypocrites.” Her hopeless ideals cannot stand up to the tough nature of reality and its merciless batter of the person. The foundation of the glass castle is turned into a trash dump just as her own dreams were discarded and transformed into more pragmatic plans. While her father still lived in a fantasy, Jeannette’s clouded vision was lifted by her own maturity and awareness. Ideas of being self-sufficient and living freely gave Jeannette a sense of hope to carry on, until her dreams, the glass castle, were
Jeannette Walls, American writer and journalist, in her memoir, The Glass Castle, shares her vividly stunning childhood growing up with her family. Due to her misguided and dysfunctional parents, Jeannette and her siblings had to suffer through poverty, negligence, and abuse. Jeannette Walls states, “Some people think my parents are absolute monsters and should’ve had their children taken away from them. Some think they were these great free-spirited creatures who had a lot of wisdom that a lot of parents today don’t [have].” Although a handful of individuals believe that the Walls’ parenting style was justified and has led to the sibling’s success, their children should have been taken away to be raised properly because their parents were unfit, and they experienced an immense amount of physical and sexual abuse and neglect throughout the process.
Jeannette and her siblings were all forced into completing tasks and taking on roles for themselves and their other siblings that are heartbreaking to read about and uncommon for most children to experience and tackle themselves. Much of this had to do with the lack of responsibility on their parents’ part and the ways they decided to live. As I have read the book, I have been amazed over and over again at the ways Jeannette handled the parental roles—both mother and father. She was very tough and never gave up, but you could tell there were other times she was just plain discouraged. One example we can see her using the roles to benefit her siblings was when her mom left to Charleston to “renew her teaching certificate” for 8 weeks and put Jeannette in charge of the money. She budgeted out $25 a week to provide the groceries and pay all of the bills that would need to be taken care of. Even though Jeannette gave her father (Rex) money when he asked, she
This is a simile to make a picture in the reader's mind of what her early childhood was like and the struggles the Jeannette went through as she was growing up in the Walls family.
In the third section of The Glass Castle, Welch, the Walls move from Phoenix to Rex’s hometown in Welch, West Virginia to live there. “He wasn't smiling, and he kept pulling at the skin of his neck as if he were itchy” (Walls 131). Rex expresses that he had scorn for his parents, which explained why he was against going to his hometown earlier. “Dad hated the idea, however, and refused to help Mom, so she plotted on her own” (Walls 123). At first, it was believed that Rex acted this way because his parents treated him abysmally. The Walls began living with Rex’s mother, Erma, and she is revealed to be abusive and would molest Brian when Rex and Rose Mary, left to go back to Phoenix. Walls’s older sister, Lori, got into a fight with Erma to intervene when Brian was being molested, and when Rex returned, he was outraged at Lori, Brian, and Jeannette. “’Brian’s a man, he can take it,’ he said. ‘I don’t want to hear another word of this. Do you hear me?’ He was shaking his head, but wildly, almost as if he thought he could keep out the sound of my voice. He wouldn’t even look at me” (Walls 148). His reaction was presumably due to Erma molesting Rex as well when he was younger leading him to leave Welch as well as why he drinks. Moreover, Rex’s refusal to remedy Brian was because he never got over the abuse Rex received when he was younger, and Rex was not able to confront it, ergo, showing how much of
In The Glass Castle, Jeannette faced many problems, in which she have to use logics to weight the pros and cons of it and give comprehensive solutions. One problem Jeannette encounter is when her dad steal the money she and Lori been saving for almost nine months to pay their trip to New York. This led them to start all over again, but the money didn’t come rapidly. Jeannette was given the opportunity of spending the summer with Mrs. Sanders in Iowa and being able to earn two hundred dollars by the end of the summer and a bus ticket back to Welch. Instead of taking the opportunity for herself, she let Lori go and ask Mrs. Sander for a bus ticket to New York. In this difficult situation, she weight the pros and cons while anticipating the
Because of the circumstances that Jeannette dealt with, she became independent very quickly. As a toddler, Jeannette had already become more self-reliant than most teenagers. At the age of three, Jeannette was severely burned while making hot dogs for herself. After being questioned at the hospital by various doctors about why and how Jeannette had been burned, she replied “Mom says I’m mature for my age and she lets me cook for
In the memoir, The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls, Jeannette’s parents make selfish decisions and often put their wants and their values before the needs of their children, “Since we didn’t have money for furniture, we improvised…Shortly after we moved into the depot, mom decided that what we really needed was a piano.” (Walls 51-52). Jeannette and her siblings realize that their family needs
Towards the beginning of the movie, we see a young Jeannette Walls making hot dogs as she did in the novel. From this scene, we immediately learn about the Walls’ family style of parenting and how dangerous it is to their children. In the book, a lot of time in this chapter of The Glass Castle is spent setting the scene and focusing on the reactions of the outside world. But since the movie is able to provide a visual representation, the majority of the expository process is reduced and more time can be allocated to further tell the story. In the movie, there is an exclusive scene where Rex Walls gets into an argument with a doctor after him questioning him about how Rex takes care of his children. Rex rebutted that in order for their family to be able to get medical attention they would have to use up months worth of money for food. This further explains the financial situation the family is in and Rex Walls’ character and beliefs. What scenes from the novel were cut were only done so to streamline the story and amass a more casual
Throughout the Glass Castle there is a constant shift in Jeanettes tone through her use of diction. Her memoir is centered around her memories with her family, but mainly her father Rex Walls. Although it is obvious through the eyes of the reader that Rex is an unfit parent and takes no responsibility for his children, in her childhood years Jeanette continually portrays Rex as an intelligent and loving father, describing her younger memories with admiration in her tone. The capitalization of “Dad” reflects Jeannette’s overall admiration for her father and his exemplary valor. “Dad always fought harder, flew faster, and gambled smarter than everyone else in his stories”(Walls 24). Jeanette also uses simple diction to describe her father, by starting sentences with, “Dad said,” over and over. By choosing to use basic language instead of stronger verbs, she captures her experience in a pure and honest tone.
When Jeannette was still a child, her father presented to her a blueprint of a castle, which was to be made as soon as the family was able to get the funds to build it. It created the children’s false image that their father was very intelligent, and an amazing person. The title of this memoir is a symbol of Jeannette’s father making many promises that were extravagant, and also empty, causing the children to not believe Rex. The promises Rex made, where very fragile, and would be broken very easily, just like glass. The castle also symbolized the children’s hope in that their family, one day they would be able live a normal pure life, just like glass. They hoped that the moving would come to an end, and having all the basic necessities would
Just like Tom Joad, Jeannette Walls must learn the power of community and its importance on perseverance. However in the Glass Castle, the aspiration of leading better lives leads the children to unimaginable goals. “He carried around the blueprints for the Glass Castle wherever we went, and sometimes he 'd pull them out and let us work on the design for our rooms. . . (Walls 25).” This drive to lead more promising and fulfilling lives results directly from the abusive living conditions Jeannette grew up in. In this way, the Glass Castle differs from the unfortunately difficult lives of the Joads in Grapes of Wrath. “No child is born a delinquent. They only became that way if nobody loved them when they were kids. Unloved children grow up to be serial murderers or alcoholics. . . (Walls 83).” With this realization, Jeannette learns that she must strive to get out of the metaphorical
In his own very special way, Rex Walls loved his children because he taught them to be independent, and self sufficient. He taught them life lessons that he believed could come in handy in the future. At times it seemed he loved the numbness that alcohol provided him more than his kids. He was never a role model for his children; he had the worst habits and lifestyle any adult can have. On more than one occasion Rex Walls abused the love and trust Jeannette had for him. A good portrayal of this is when the check for lease on Rose Mary’s Texas land came in the mail and Rex tricked Jeannette in trusting him with the money and said “Let’s hide it together”. To Rex everything was a big adventure, he did not care that that money was to provide for his children; his only concern was getting money to spend on alcohol and winning money from games of billiards. Even with all of his undesirable traits, his children loved him and they looked up to him when they were little. On one occasion, he said to Jeannette, "But you always loved your old man, didn 't you?" "I did, Dad," I said. "And you always loved me". Jeannette and Rex Walls shared a very special father and daughter relationship. Out of all his kids Jeannette was always the one who trusted him and
The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls is a harrowing and heartbreaking yet an inspiring memoir of a young girl named Jeannette who was deprived of her childhood by her dysfunctional and unorthodox parents, Rex and Rose Mary Walls. Forced to grow up, Walls stumbled upon coping with of her impractical “free-spirited” mother and her intellectual but alcoholic father, which became her asylum from the real world, spinning her uncontrollably. Walls uses pathos, imagery, and narrative coherence to illustrate that sometimes one needs to go through the hardships of life in order to find the determination to become a better individual.
I could say, and few would disagree, that perhaps the most important things for a parent to have and to give is love. Love seems at first to be all-encompassing; that as long as you love your children, you would do anything and everything for them- and this makes you a good parent.