“It’s not enough to be friendly. You have to be a friend,” R.J.Palacio. Though Summer was the only one to really be a friend to August in the beginning, Jack was friendly and learned that just being friendly was not enough. He needed to be a friend. I started to think about how kids and I would realistically act around August, and I concluded that I would react much like Jack did.
The students in the book Wonder were very unrealistic. Students may talk about August and some may not want to be friends with him, but they would never start a plague. For someone to start a game like this is very mean and upsets August, this is unlike any 5th grade experience I’ve ever heard of. Also, in the book Wonder, a war started between a boy named Julian
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and Jack. Realistically no “war” would ever be started, and a student could not get most of the school to ignore one boy. Mean notes were written and this made a lot of conflict. By the next school year Julian moved schools. People at school can be mean and talk behind your back, but there is no way a student could get almost the whole school to ignore one kid. If a boy like August came to my school, I would relate best to the character Jack.
I definitely don’t think I would ever have the courage to be like the character Summer and go sit with August at lunch. I wish I could say or think I would be kind or brave enough and go sit with a boy that everyone was scared of. I would say that I really relate to Jack though, as a character Jack was very kind to be August’s friend, he was also insecure and wanted to fit in. I think that what Jack did was very mean by talking about August behind his back, but I also understand because it would be very hard being August’s friend while all of your other friends were talking about you.
I couldn’t imagine if a boy like August came to school with me in Oxford but I definitely would act kinder then the other students in the book. Even though I don’t think I would have the courage to become August’s first really good friend like Summer I would be kind to him knowing it is hard to come to a new school. I know what it’s like being the new kid and it’s not fun at all, especially August knowing he was different, though he felt like a normal boy inside.
People are mean to others that are different, but we are all different, some being more than others. We should all respect each others differences. If a kid like August came to school with me, I would use someone like Summer as a role model and always be, not just friendly but a friend to
everyone.
Friendship doesn’t last long when people grow apart and have different interests. In Susie Kretschmer story’s “And Summer is Gone”, the friendship between Daivd, the speaker, and his childhood friend Amy starts to fade when their contrasting characters develop different interests, personalities and achievement as they grow up When school begins, both characters grow apart when Amy’s interest dramatically changes in order to fit into her social peer group. These changes cause her relationship with David to deteriorate as her interest shifts. Amy becomes less interested in “build [ing] little pyramids of clay” and prefers to “[go] to every part, every football game, every prestigious event at school”. She loses her interest in art and becomes more superficial and social.
Jack is a low down dirty character who feasts on the imaginations of little boys to gain power amongst himself. Being only ten years old you would wonder how a little kid could become so rotten so early well Jack is living proof of that. Being in control of others brings Jacks happiness sky high its almost as if something comes over him every time he speaks to someone, it's as if in his past life he had horrible experiences with the world and has come back just to tarnish the lives of many young boys during the most tragic tragedy of their lives.I most deeply admire the fact that Jack knows what he wants which is essential in a life that we are living in today because it may interpret your future. What I dislike is that Jack knowingly arrived on this famished island with a plan even though the crash was not expected.The plan was to take existent land that was not entitled to anyone and turn the island into "Jacks World", a place where you will be taken
The book “lord of the flies” is a well- known novel written by the acknowledged author, William Golding. The book indicates that it takes place in the midst of an unspecified nuclear war, when several British children, and specifically boys, are send away in order to survive. Based on real life events, William Golding deflects perfectly the sad consequences of war in contrast to the native spark of hope that’s flickering inside every human being through the eyes of the purest creatures in this world, children.
Summer shows us that she is kind in a very thoughtful way. One way she showed kindness was not telling anyone that she was Teddy’s boyfriend. When most girls have a boyfriend. The blab all about to everyone. But if Summer were to tell everyone, Teddy and Summer would be all over the news, and Teddy did not want that. So, Summer did not blab. This was really hard for her because Teddy state's, “Most people don’t know Summer was my girlfriend. Even our closest friends,” This tells us that she could not tell anybody that she was dating
Even though there friendship started off with hatred after talking, they got to know each other. They shared their goals, dreams, their education and their families with each other freely. Mr. Malter, Reuven’s father, tells Reuven what a friend is defined as, and tells Reuven to give Danny a chance to get to know him better, because Danny needs him.
Friendships change as people grow up. Joy, Jeremy, and Darin are best friends, but as they enter high school things start to change. Darin and Joy start to date, and as school passes Joy and Jeremy start to have feelings towards each other. Joy and Jeremy having feelings for one another causes problems with their friendship with Darin. In the novel Triangle by Jon Ripslinger the author discusses the theme of friendships changing over time.
Friends come and go, it’s the good ones that stay. In the book “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time India” The author convey many themes but friendship is one of the biggest. Throughout the book, Junior the main character talks about his life and how friendship is very important to him. He learns to make new friends and understand to let go of some.
When August ran into school without even saying goodbye to his dad I imagined the excitement he felt to have his face covered for the day. He was so excited running through the hallways as he got random high fives from other kids who didn’t even know who he
The whole entire story could've had an entire different outcome if Jack didn’t have so many personality blemishes. Jack seems like he has something wrong with him as far as handling his emotions go. He is always very mean to Piggy and was the first to thirst for blood.
Friendship is not something that has adapted over time. The desire to seek out and surround ourselves with other human beings, our friends, is in our nature. Philosophers such as Aristotle infer that friendship is a kind of virtue, or implies virtue, and is necessary for living. Nobody would ever choose to live without friends, even if we had all the other good things. The relationship between two very different young boys, Bruno and Shmuel’s in the film The Boy in the Striped Pajamas is an example of the everlasting bond of a perfect friendship based upon the goodness of each other.
People should not have to stay in friendships they don't want to, but a one time thing is different then all the time. Make sure that you are around people that make you feel good. I had some experience with both of these.
It was a cold October afternoon in 1996, and I raced down the stairs and out the front door, in an attempt to avoid my mother's questions of where I was going, with whom, and when I'd be back. I saw my friend Kolin pull up in his rusted, broken-down gray van, and the side door opened as Mark jumped out and motioned for me to come. I was just about to get in when my mother called from the front doorway. She wanted to talk to me, but I didn't want to talk to her, so I hopped in pretending I hadn't heard her and told Kolin to drive off.
Almost at the age of seven, I made a friend named Dani. I liked being with her because she was always smiling. We played together and giggled a lot. Sometimes, she’d randomly dance, spin around, or run away alone, but I never cared or wondered why. One day, there were these older kids pointing and laughing at her. I skipped up to them. “Dani’s my friend,” I blurted out happily. They laughed even harder.
Growing up in school you have your friends in 1st, then in Jr. High, and then when you get to high school you might not even know or see your friends from 1st grade anymore. For the few people who’s had a friend from 1st grade till college I think that someone they need to hold on to because if they stuck with you through all them year I know they’re there for the right reason and there not just there for a season. As Elizabeth Dunphy says, “It’s the little things that matter, that add up in the end, with the priceless thrilling magic found only in a friend.”
In the Oxford Dictionary, a challenge is described as, “A task or situation that tests someone's abilities,” (Oxford Dictionary, n.d.) From the insight provided in this course, I have come to realize that challenges do not necessarily test one’s abilities, but can confront the strength of a group dynamic. This being said, tasks can come up in women’s friendships very easily, and the challenge tests the relationship between one another, and how they will handle it. Throughout this course, I have been referring back and forth with my Challenges to Female Friendship Narrative. I found more ways to view the original scenario, and secondary challenges that may have been present. It has allowed me to learn of the challenges I may have been creating