Today there are many ways to run your household; all families have different techniques of parenting. Some parents are very gentle with their children and others not so much some parents think they need to give their children no freedom if they want to be successful in life and get everything they want in life. But in my opinion everyone should have their freedom to do anything they would like unless it doesn’t bring any good. But then you have to look at it in the parent’s perspective, if they control their lives they believe their children wouldn’t do anything bad or dangerous. Some children may listen to their parents because it’s the right thing to do but others might want to do that specific thing just because they were told not to in the first place. Not everyone is the same but some people are like that, children need their freedom but not too much because sometimes they can get out of hand. I know of some parents that don’t allow their children to not get anything less than an A in class. Some parents may place too much pressure on children which leads them to become rebellious in the future. Could extreme parenting healthy for children or just go extremely in the opposite direction.
I know a little boy but won’t mention his name but he comes over every other day with his family and he likes to play video games and just basically likes to have fun like every other 7 year old. When he comes over he knows he can have anything he wants without asking because my house is his house even though he doesn’t live here. Every time he wants to eat something he has to ask his parents if he can have some, even though he may be hungry they sometimes don’t let him eat it, not sure for the reason. But if I were them I wouldn’t say no beca...
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...eed it. They will end up being successful if they have the best of both worlds in my opinion because they won’t get tired because they have very strict parents or have parents let them do anything they want. One day those parents that let their children do anything they want regret they ever did.
Basically be on top of everything your children do during their lives but also don’t ruin their fun when they are having it. Help them understand why they are being pushed so hard to accomplish certain things. The day they know the day they will be doing the things they need to do without even being asked just knowing it needs to be done. Being too strict can lead your children to not care later on in the future, for some but for others they may just give up on school or just stop listening to their parents because they feel they are too pushy and are just tired of it all.
The Rogerian model is a diplomatic mode of argumentation that can be used in writing to present a problem and offer a solution to a specific issue. When reading an essay that follows the Rogerian outline, it is easier to understand what the writer is trying to persuade and argue, because it states the problem and shows why the issue needs to be addressed. Then it proposes the opponent's position and validates grants whatever validity the writer finds in the opposition's perspective. For example, the writer may acknowledge certain situations in which the opponent's position can be acceptable. The Rogerian outline could be helpful and used to enhance an argument. A writer might argue that extreme parenting is counterproductive for a child, because
Every parent wishes the best for his/her child. All they want is for them to be the best they possibly can be, so they can grow up and have a successful career; one in which they can live a happy and comfortable life.
... want. Your child needs structure and discipline, just like every other kid out there. The point is only to allow your child to have input on activities that focus on them explicitly. When planning for your child’s extra-curricular activities, allow them to say that they want to play basketball, not soccer; that they prefer the clarinet to the violin. Allow them to choose whatever activities interest them, not what fits the parent’s agenda. These are all mistakes that any parent, good or bad, can easily make. They are so easy to forget and no parent can claim that they have never done this to their child. Just remember the next time when planning a child’s day to include what they actually want to do in the events. Otherwise a parent can end up with an unruly child whose nature (like most others) is to lash out when forced into activities that they do not enjoy.
Be strict. Parents love their children, but it is harmful for them if they give them too much love and accommodate themselves.
Extreme parenting is absurd and irrational; bringing up a child this way is harmful, unrealistic, and unfair to the child and his or her future. Research shows extreme parenting has negative effects on children’s mental health and limits their personal development.
This style of parenting is best described as the child having more control over the parent. There are a lot of parents today that seem to have no control of their child actions and even words. This in which can make the parents question what are they doing wrong when it comes to raising their child. This type of parent have very low demands and are highly responsive, maybe even too responsive to the child’s needs. Although these parents are very loving of their children they do not have many rules that their child should abide by (Cherry, K. 2017, para.1). Not setting ground rules gives the child the freedom to do whatever they want and know that they will not receive a harsh, if any punishment at all. Also, parents who are permissive tend to want to be their child’s best friend. The child in this parent in child relationship tends to have more control than the parent. If there are not any rules in place to be followed the child will eventually resort to negative behaviors, and may even be insure because of the low discipline from their parents (Cherry, K. 2017, para. 9). Permissive parents should give the child rules to follow and discipline them if broken, to ensure that their child follow the right path throughout
With over three hundred million Americans and over six billion people worldwide parenting skills are essential to maintain a healthy society. Parenting involves many aspects and requires many skills. It is a time to nurture, instruct, and correct to develop fundamental skills children will need to be mature, responsible, and contributing adults to a society. There are four commonly identified parenting styles; authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved parenting. Of the four parenting styles, two remain on opposite ends of the parenting spectrum. These two styles; authoritarian, and permissive both have deleterious results that are often visible throughout different developmental stages, such as rebellious behavior. As well each style has its own advantages such as; acceptance by peers with commonality. Child rearing for most parents is an evolving set of skills. It could be said that, with any style of parenting, there is no explicit set of rules for every situation, and what works for one child may not be effective for another.
Each parent is different; they all have different ways in parenting and disciplining their children. One’s own parenting style is usually derived from the way one was raised or the society one lives in. Parenting styles include authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive, and it is very important to know which style one falls in because it can have an effect on how one’s child grows up to be and develops. Authoritative parenting would be the better parenting style because it is in the middle of the parenting styles; it is not at the extreme ends of the spectrum. It can be very beneficial to parents to understand that how one raises their children can give them a foundation for good development for years to come.
There are many approaches to parenting and everyone has their own preferences as to what they think is best. In a fast paced rush around society, it is hard to know what the best choices are for your children. There is a struggle to balance what needs to be done with what can be done, and this has negative and positive feedback on the children. Parents play a critical role in shaping and guiding their children into functional confident adults. An effective parent will learn as they teach in order to grow into understanding with their children.
It can be said for most parents that they want their children to grow up to be successful contributing members of society. Being a parent is a difficult, yet rewarding task. But why do some types of parenting result in juvenile delinquency while others find success. There are four generally recognized parenting styles and are categorized: authoritarian, permissive, neglectful, and authoritative. This essay will break down the various styles, its type(s) of discipline and effectiveness.
The style of parenting with which children are raised can profoundly affect their social development, as well as their abilities to deal with life situations as adults. Parents who follow the permissive style of parenting have very few rules, no consistent limits, and more often than not give in to their children.. In a permissive family, the children are in charge.
This paper will explore the strict parenting whether it has positive effects or negative effects on children. Before I begin my discussion, I want to ask you a question. How do you define an authoritarian parent? In response to this question, you can think about someone who has a complete control over his or her children. According to Kendra Cherry, the author of “What Is Authoritarian Parenting?”, she explains that, “Authoritarian Parenting is a style characterized by high demands and low responsiveness.” In this sentence, authoritarian parenting, also known as helicopter parenting, is parents who force their children to follow their needs without any explanations, so their children must be under their regulations even though children do not
This parenting style is very undemanding but also very responsive. Permissive parents tend to shower their children with love and affection and involve themselves in their lives. However, they tend to have few to no rules and limitations and therefore have no expectations for their children. They exert a lax pattern of parenting in which they make relatively few demands, permit their children to freely express their feelings and impulses, do not closely monitor their children’s activities, and rarely exert firm control over their behavior (Shaffer & Kipp, 2013). This type of parenting style is not the most beneficial but also not the most negative. The fact that permissive parents make an effort to be involved is a good sign however, the lack of structure is not entirely the best parenting technique. They seem to focus more on being their child’s friend then being their child’s parent. Because of this, they raise children with less favorable developmental outcomes. Not only are they impulsive and aggressive who come off as rude but they also tend to be spoiled and self centered with very little
Lastly discipline is another very important responsibility. The best thing to do is to pick your battles, because if you are constantly saying “no” your child will tune it out. You also have to be consistent. For example, you can’t let your child eat candy before dinner one night and then tell them not to the next night, you will be sending them mixed signals.
Teenagers will probably develop into balanced and well-adjusted grown-ups if their parents are firm disciplinarians. Parents should supervise their children and take care of their actions but with limits because if parents have no mercy on their kids, their kids will typically do everything they can to get freedom which will include lying to parents about where they’re going, hiding secrets, concealing friends, and will generally make them get really used to being sneaky and rebellious. Also, as mentioned earlier, parents have a huge effect on their teenagers’ personalities which will surely make them more forceful and aggressive towards their peers at school, just like how their relationship with their parents work. So, the thought of strict parenting creates better-behaved children is definitely incorrect. It is clearly proved that it actually tends to create kids with lower self esteem who behave worse than different children - and in this manner get punished more! Strict child rearing really creates behavior problems in