Communication And Communication: The Importance Of Friendship

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Friend has always been regarded as a precious gift presented to human beings. Without friendship, life is completely meaningless. However, building up and keeping a long-last relationship with friend is not simple as there exists many elements contributing to the lifespan of friendship in which communication is included. Samter (2003) points out five mainly necessary competencies for establishing and preserving friendship, which are initiation, responsiveness, self-disclosure, emotional support and conflict management. However, due to length limitation, the essay will focus solely on three main domains: initiation, self-disclosure, and conflict management as well as role of communication and signals of an ending friendship.

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In fact, friendship, similar to other kinds of relationships, has to follow a circle of three stages: initiating, developing and maintain, and deteriorating. How quickly a friendship experiences those stages much relies on its participants’ interpersonal communication. For instance, in friendship initiation, friendship cannot begin if there’s no communication. If they do not ask, they cannot know deeply about one sitting opposite them. Another example is when two friends have disagreement, they need to resolve that conflict by divulging their feelings about the matter, the issues honestly and …show more content…

In a certain period of time, affected by some certain actions, partners of a friendship will lose their satisfaction for the others consciously or unconsciously. Gradually, they spend less time together or show less engagement to the other. The deterioration of friendship can be signified by two stages: recognition of dissatisfaction and disengaging. The first stage of a de-escalating friendship: recognition of dissatisfaction can be described as a period in which friends start to be bored with their partners. In this stage, it is easy for people to find out faults of the other as now they lose their interest for their partners. Any problem happening in this stage may become cause of conflicts and quarrel between friends and people often tend to be more defensive and less willing to solve the

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