Why do women choose to live in abusive and miserable relationships? Instead of taking actions and strive for happy life, women choose to stay silent. They have all the power to go against self-empowered men, but most of women renounce action. There are certain obstacle created by society and especially men that make it harder for women to stand up for themselves. The following articles explore and elucidate the idea of women’s silence and timidness to act. John Berger in his article “The Ways of Seeing” indicates women and men’s roles appearance in society and towards each other. The writer introduces the concept of surveyed and surveyor, where men play a role of an observant and women are an item that they observe. In the article “The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action” Audre Lorde discusses the importance of speaking out in order to show your true self. Silence only increases anxiety and feeling of oppression. The inspiring story in the excerpt “The Church and Slavery” by Harriet Jacobs tells us about slaves fighting for there freedom and equality through gaining knowledge of reading and writing. A lot of risks were taken to overcome the control of white man and oppression, but in the end those risks brought the start to the better future. Very illustrating and encouraging poster “You Body is a Battleground” shows the conflict that goes within abused women The light side of the poster shows the masked life of abused women, who pretend to live a happy life for others. The dark side illustrates women true feelings and emotions. The colors black, white and red, which were chosen by the artist Barbara Kruger connects us more to the poster, and makes us, share the pain of abused women. In the article “Once classroo...
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Why do women choose to live in abusive and miserable relationships? Instead of taking actions and strive for happy life, women choose to stay silent. They have all the power to go against self-empowered men, but most of women renounce action. There are certain obstacle created by society and especially men that make it harder for women to stand up for themselves.
Women stay in the abusive relationships because our society puts an enormous pressure on them. Fear, shame, oppression and radical change push women to choose life in misery and stay silent. Moreover man creates unequal atmosphere around women and by that show their dominance and supremacy. It is hard for a woman in the abusive relationship, who was already weakened by her abuse to overcome all those fears, to gather her strength and only to start a fight, with only power she has left.
There are many women who are currently in an abusive relationship, or have been in an abusive relationship. The most common reason these women do not leave their abuser is because they are scared, financial, or family reasons. Amy McGee would be alive today to tell her own story if her situation was handled differently.
Almost as if they were to be trained as an animal. Second, socioeconomic status was a key factor in abusive relationships. Lower income women are proven to be more frequently victims of domestic violence than wealthier women. Situations where the male partner is underemployed or unemployed, he’s not seeking employment, or they are residing in a poor neighborhood all can have an impact of on abusive relationships. Third, some batterers were abused themselves. Here, batterers were abused during their upbringing whether it be physical, verbal, or sexually abused. They may have also witnessed domestic violence as a part of their childhood. From here, being abusive was embedded in their mind. They were confused about a healthy relationship. Using violence as a means of power and control was the way of life. Boys who witness domestic violence are more likely to batter as an adult. Fourth, race was another factor when being abusive. Black women seem to be more disrespectful towards men and talk out of line resulting in abuse. Black women also worry about the repercussions of reporting domestic violence. A lot of abusive relationships go
It is common knowledge that Ray Rice used his wife as a punching bag in the elevator of an Atlantic City casino. What is truely remarkable is that his fiancé became his wife after that vicious left hook to the face left her unconscious. Why do women stay with men who beat them unconscious? Domestic violence is a serious and complex plague of society that affects all, but women make up the largest number of victims in most case studies. In the United States alone, '1.5 million women are raped or physically assaulted by an intimate partner each year. More than 500,000 women victims require medical treatment, and 324,000 victims are pregnant at the time of assault' (Berlinger, 'Taking' 42). Numbers like these show how intense the situation of domestic violence truly is. 'Two women a week are killed by a current or former partner and domestic violence accounts for 22% of all recorded violent crimes' (Jamil 70). Domestic violence takes such a large number in percentages regarding violent crimes, yet often is dismissed by many with the idea that 'this won't happen to me'. Somehow, somewhere, domestic violence will touch everyone whether by someone they know or by televised publication. Though domestic violence affects men as well, the female subject is more often the victim. Domestic violence has a continuous cycle that has been influenced since birth and can be stopped with intervention but each victim's reason for staying will vary.
Most people in society are one sided when it comes to domestic violence. Most people automatically think domestic violence as men abusing women. Most people believe domestic violence is associated with gender. For instance, some people associate men with violent, destructive, and belligerent behavior. While women are often seen as innocent, fragile, and vulnerable. For many years men were the ones showing violent behavior, so most people believe men are usually the aggressor. Many people believe men should never abuse a woman, and if he does he will charged and most likely serve jail time. Although, women are not viewed the same way. Over the years women have become just as aggressive and violent as men have been portrayed. Many women who are violent are given a pass if they abuse a man. More simply, their behavior is overlooked, because they are not seen as a threat to society, so they will most likely not be jailed or punished for their behavior. In addition, there are many resources to help women get out of domestic violence situations. For instance, there are hotlines they can call, shelters they can visit, and support
women feel powerless. Many women stay in abusive relationships because they are too afraid to leave. If a
Women will continue to suffer from domestic violence unless there is some sort of intervention to help them. When dealing with this population, it is essential to create a safe environment where the woman can talk freely about the abuse without any retaliation from the abuser. When someone comes into a therapeutic session, everyone deserves to be treated with respect and care. This in turn will create a sense of hope that a different type of life can be possible. Also, knowing that there is a support system can help the woman begin the process of change. Despite this, the process of leaving the abusive partner is slow (Warshaw, n.d.)
There are many reasons why a woman would stay in an abusive relationship. When in an abusive relationship you are stripped of your basic rights as a human being.. One of the major reasons women continue to suffer in an abusive relationship is out of fear. The victim may be scared of how the partner may act when she leaves. The victim may stay if the relationship to avoid revenge from the abuser and to protect herself and or her family. The highest risk for death or serious injury during an abusive relationship is during the separation process. Another reason a woman might stay in an abusive relationship would be because the victim still has hope that the abuse will eventually end and the abuser will change. The victim will try to justify the
The women of this country struggle to gain independence due to the suppression that they face from the lack of moral compass within the male population. They are rendered voiceless by the male dominion which looms over them out of fear for the abuse they are all too will familiar experiencing. Constantly being subjected to abuse can and does pose a high impact not only the women, but the society in which the women live. Every waking moment, the lives of a woman is filled with hate, fear, and feelings of
The articles that are going to be synthesized in this paper are “Ending Violence Against Women” and “Violence Against Women”. The authors of both pieces were not mentioned but the presumed to be someone who wants to prevent or help those who have been victimized by someone they know. The audiences for both pieces are any one who wants violence against women to stop and people who have and still are being victimized to know that there is help out there. The purpose for both pieces are the same as well, they are to inform people that violence against women is preventable, and that there is help for those who are or have been victimized by people. They both have logos, ethos, and pathos in every aspect of the articles. The logos in “Ending Violence Against Women” is one in three women have been victimized by someone they know. The logos in “Violence Against Women” are violence against women happens to one in four females in America. The ethos in “Ending Violence Against Women” and “Violence Against Women” is this should happen to no one no matter if they are male or female. The pathos in “Ending Violence Against Women” is the whole of the person no matter what kind of abuse it is. The pathos in “Violence Against Women” is it can devastate the whole of any women. Hence, violence against women should be stopped because the differences and similarities are equal to how bad things are for women and their inequalities.
Typically, men are framed to be the strong partner, but that doesn’t mean that they easily escape domestic violence due to their masculinity. Did you know one in three men have experienced domestic violence? According to CDC's statistics estimate roughly 5,365,000 men had been victims of intimate abuse, and 40% of the victims of severe physical violence are men. If the numbers are outrageous, and even higher than those of women victims, why do hardly hear about them? Men often feel embarrassed, emasculated, or even trepidacious of reporting their abuse, mainly because they are coerced into believing that authority will not take them serious. Men are not just physically abused, but also sexual and emotional abuse. The abuse they experience can include: verbal and emotional abuse, belittlement, humiliation, act in a possessive/jealous manner, threaten you if you opted to walk away, engage in any sexual act without your desire, or threaten to hurt you with a knife, bat, or any other object.
In such situations, people (mainly women) may feel that their life is endangered or at high risk due to domestic violence in an abusive relationship. When a woman leaves an abusive relationship, she often has nowhere to go with little to no resources, causing them to be homeless.
...ediately. A relationship is never be easy going the entire time. Arguments do happen, but in positive and healthy relationships neither party should ever use physical force to get what they want. Healthy relationships involve mutual respect in contrast to unhealthy relationships when the abuser uses violence to solve every problem. Abusive relationships can go undetected until it is too late. There are many reasons why both men and women stay in abusive relationships. Victims stay with their abusers because they are mentally dependent, and afraid for their lives. Also, if children are involved, they don’t want them to be without a father. Furthermore, learning about the Social Learning Theory, we need to stop the violence before it becomes a pattern in the family. If this behavior continues, an on-going cycle of violence could easily carry on for generations to come.
Nearly one in every four woman are beaten or raped by a partner in adulthood. That was one of the statistic that our speaker from the Clackamas Women’s Services said on Wednesday. This was one of the things that she said that stood out to me. So, in this essay I will be telling you what I learned from her. First I will give you two definitions of domestic violence and explain about the type of abuse, second I will tell you about a myth that people believe in and explain why the victim might stay with the abuser, and finally I will tell you one of the thing I like the best in her lecture and how to recognize an abuser.
In their lives too many women are abuse for such petty reasons and in all sorts of abuse, Sexual division of labor and gender expectations and a unheard and still disrespected voice.
Why do women put up with abuse? This question is often the first question people ask, but it is misdirected. Why doesn't she leave? This focuses on the woman’s behavior and not the batterers behavior. Instead we should ask why do men batter? This question is also misinformed. Many women leave every day. Leaving doesn't always mean protection from future violence. Leaving is a multi-staged process.(Sussman) On average a woman leaves and returns six times before she leaves permanently. There are many factors that often help to keep a woman with her batterer.