Who is to Blame in Romeo and Juliet?

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In the novel Romeo & Juliet by William Shakespeare, who is to blame for the inevitable fate of Romeo and Juliet? Could it be their families? Friar Laurence? Friar John? Romeo and Juliet had a strong love for each which no one could separate even if they were apart. The moment Juliet found out Romeo drank poison; she stabbed herself with his dagger because she didn’t feel it was right for him to kill himself. If the letter from Friar Laurence were to get delivered to Romeo by Friar John, he would have known that Juliet wasn’t really dead and that it was just a plan to help her get out of her marriage with Count Paris. Only if Friar Laurence’s urgent letter had got delivered to Romeo, their lives may not have ended this way.
The Capulet’s and Montague’s of both Romeo and Juliet’s families despised each other very much. The feud between the two families started a long time ago but no one is able to forget the past. The Capulet’s and Montague’s are both unable to keep the feud inside closed doors; instead they bring it out onto the streets causing violence. I think that if there wasn’t a family feud, Romeo and Juliet wouldn’t have had to hide their love for each other from their families and Friar Laurence wouldn’t have had to help Juliet get out of her marriage with County Paris. Both Capulet and Montague families had many differences but didn’t realise just how much it affected Romeo and Juliet until after their death. In the book Romeo and Juliet, Juliet says “If he be married/ My grave is like to be my wedding bed (I v 132)”. This quote shows how the feud between the two families affects Romeo & Juliet and prevents them from being together. If Romeo and Juliet didn’t have the feud between the two families, they could have been to...

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...’t have forced the Apothecary to give him poison for free. Friar John was the only one responsible for making sure that the letter got to Romeo and he failed to complete that mission for Friar Laurence.
Even though Friar John was unsuccessful at completing Friar Laurence’s mission, if Romeo and Juliet’s families didn’t have so many disagreements, there could have been a possibility of them being together and wouldn’t have to hide it from their families. Friar Laurence was very much responsible for Juliet’s death. Their death was very much preventable in many ways, but nobody thought about how it could affect not only themselves, but their families’ lives too. Their families also never thought about forgetting what happened in the past. The feud between the Montague and Capulet family has affected their children’s lives.

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