What truly defines an adult? When you think of the word adult many things may come to mind; age, responsibility, being the bigger person and goals are just a few. Everyone eventually becomes an adult but just because you turn eighteen does not mean you should be considered as one. “I think one of the defining moments of adulthood is the realization that nobody 's going to take care of you. That you have to do the heavy lifting while you 're here. And when you don 't, well, you suffer the consequences.” (Adam Savage, brainyquote.com) Adulthood requires sacrifice and a good mindset. Sometimes people aren’t shown how to take care of themselves, this being either too babied or not having anyone to look up to. Growing up is hard but no one says you have to do it alone. It is nice to get advice here and there from those that have been through the newly-adulted stage. Being an adult is not just an age. …show more content…
Having bills and a social life sometimes can conflict with each other and seem like you can’t have both at the same time, especially starting out. To keep up with bills such as rent, insurance, groceries, etc. you have to have a job. Keeping a job is not very hard, but it requires you to be on time for your shift. Time management takes a big role in responsibility because time is precious and sadly we do not have all the time in the world to get things done. It is very familiar to know “adults” who still live at home. To be considered an adult I believe that you should be the one supporting yourself with a job and the money you earn. Without managing time and money there are possibilities of minor or major downfalls. Bills might not get paid, or something may happen with the employer and things just might seem like nothing is working out; but being an adult means you are responsible for putting all the pieces back
Emerging Adulthood represents the period of development from late teens through their twenties, mainly focusing on the ages 18-25. This is the period which people start exploring and realizing the capabilities of their lives, which then helps them characterize as adults and no longer teenagers. This topic of psychology is compelling to me because it’s a stage that every adult has lived through, it’s interesting that we have all experienced it differently based on our life circumstances and demographics. It’s interesting to see the changes throughout the years and eventually it will be easier for young people to explore these years as more young adults are going to school nowadays. It teaches me to further understand why emerging adults go through
Some examples that shows that one is responsible is when they have a job, a companionship, and are financially stable. Establishing connections within the world is important so one can have things they become responsible for. Being able to accomplish something from by one’s word shows their maturity in many scenarios. In my opinion, showing the obligation to acquire something is the most relevant when determining one’s consideration of adulthood. An adult is responsible for their own choices and are aware that their decisions can affect other people around them. The ability to balance out priorities like family, friends, work or school can be difficult but hitting the age of adulthood brings reason into a person. If a person is acknowledged to be responsible in another person’s point of view, it is most likely right to consider them as an adult despite of legal “laws” or accepted
When I realized that it was time to start building my path towards my adulthood. I asked to myself; how I am supposed to do this? And how my actions from today are going to affect my future? Jeffrey Arnett who was the first person to introduce the term "emerging adulthood" said that, "they [adolescents] do feel a great deal more independent and mature compared to when they were adolescents." (16-17) I agree with the author because, In my personal experience after turning 18 I felt different It was a feeling of superiority among younger adolescents, but at the same time I felt that I needed to be more responsible for my actions and future decisions. I was not the high school kid anymore. Speaking in terms of adulthood, it involves two important aspects which are also considered requirements in order to become an adult: responsibility and self-independence. To start my path towards adulthood correctly, I created my own definition of adulthood, which states that: once you become a person totally independent from your parents, once you realize that only you are responsible for your own life and possible life of others and once you can create and sustain a family on your own then you can consider yourself mature, not only physically but physiologically and financially. Based on my definition of adulthood, until now, I think that I am not failing to lunch, on the contrary, I am building a launch pad to succeed in my transition to
When elderly people move into the last of life’s eight stages of psychosocial development, they enter the ego-integrity-versus-despair stage. This process is defined by looking back over someone’s life, evaluating it, then accepting it. People who become successful in this stage feel a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment. Erikson refers to this acceptance as integrity. This differs from generativity because one is accepting the end of their life, instead of accepting where their life will start in a sense of career and self. However, if one is to look back on their life with dissatisfaction, they may feel they have been cheated or missed opportunities. Such individuals will mostly be depressed or angry about the way life turned out and
Adulthood has often been associated with independence. It serves as a turning point in life where one has to take responsibility for oneself and no longer being dependent on his or her family. Early adulthood, usually begins from late teens or early twenties and will last until the thirties (Santrock, 2013). Early adulthood revolves around changes and exploration while middle and late adulthood are more of stability. The transition from adolescence and adulthood differs among every individual. The onset of the transition is determined by many factors such as culture, family background, and the personality of the individual. Emerging adulthood (as cited in Santrock, 2014) is the term to describe the transition period from adolescence to adulthood.
When you turn eighteen you are expected to just be mature. You’re allowed to buy a house, a car, get a credit card, it seems like you can do whatever you want. Maturity basically gets thrown at you, so hopefully you are prepared for it. High school responsibilities, like getting a job, budgeting your time and learning to drive teach you skills that you can use in your adult life, if you choose to apply them. Maturity is about choice. You can be given every skill that you need to survive and if you are mature enough you will use them.
“As a child I assumed that when I reached adulthood, I would have grown-up thoughts.”- David Sedaris. The transition from a child to an adult could be a very intimidating time, this is because not only are people expected to know more but the increase of responsibility sometimes terrifies people. Many reasons on why some prefer childhood over their now adulthood varies on responsibility, the things people are required to know, and the the idea of having a parent or being a parent.
In the Hispanic culture girls become women at the age of fifteen. In many cultures teenagers can earn a license at age sixteen. When someone turns eighteen they can legally move out of their home and away from their family, ready to start a life of their own. Then at the age of twenty one drinking alcoholic beverages is perfectly legal. But at which of these ages does one become a mature person? While there may still be some debate as to what actually constitutes maturity, there is no doubt that a mature person--whether child or adult--shows humble confidence and responsibility.
Many people believe that age determined adulthood but they are wrong because age is a number and everyone grows up in different rates. You can’t always expect everyone to become mature at the same age, because everyone is different. Many teens become adults faster for certain reason and some of them were not give the option they just had to too. Becoming an adult is not an option for everyone but sooner or later you have to grow up because you can’t stay a kid forever. Being 18 years old makes you legally an adult in united states, but in reality we know that 18 years old are very different from maturity as well responsibilities and life experience.
Childhood and adulthood are two different periods of one’s lifetime but equally important. Childhood is the time in everybody’s life when they are growing up to be an adult. This is when they are being considered babies because of their youthfulness and innocence. Adulthood is the period of time where everybody is considered “grown up,” usually they begin to grow up around the ages of eighteen or twenty-one years old but they do remain to develop during this time. However, in some different backgrounds, not everybody is not fully adults until they become independent with freedom, responsible for their own actions, and able to participate as an adult within society. Although childhood and adulthood are both beneficial to our lives, both periods share some attributes such as independence, responsibility, and innocence that play distinctive roles in our development.
Maturity is a quality that is admirable for anyone, at any age to have. Perhaps that is because it has to be learned over time and is not something that one naturally has as a character trait. When I think of maturity, I usually think of adults who know how to conduct themselves. Adults are a symbol of maturity-- this goes back to the etymology of the word- which stems from the Latin word maturitas, maturitatis, f. In Latin, the word means ripeness, which would make sense because adults are fully developed. Although the literal meaning of maturity is within the realm of being fully developed, there is a more precise definition that would apply to the psychological and mental practice of what is maturity.
Come hundreds of new responsibilities and duties when you are an adult. I must get up every morning. Assist in my job, be on time. Be responsible for my duties at work. Assume the consequences of my actions, cope with stress. Being adult’s means that you have more involvement with a lot difficult circumstances, but you know your identity, or still working on it, is the time you do not want to become anybody else, just want to be you. No more imitating those peculiar characters in television, and
My whole life I have lived with a single thought in the back of my mind, that thought haunted me sometimes and made me worry about who I might become as a person in the future. I always wondered what I was going to do with my life even when I was young. With the consistent pressure from my parents to work at a young age and to also keep up with my good grades, I began to develop a lot of stress. Through it all, I realized that enjoying time spending time with my friends and sitting on my latest console gaming all day was going to change.
I am a freshmen in college and have yet to turn eighteen. Being a minor makes it very difficult to do anything on your own. This is not a challenge you an overcome on your own time, you must simply make adjustments for it until you turn of age. I am unable to sign any of my own documents because I am eighteen. It makes it incredibly hard to do anything official. Job hunting is more difficult because I am a higher liability. This issue limits my paperwork as well as my social life. There are many places I can 't go that many college kids can. Being under age isn 't an issue I can tackle directly but there are several things I did to help deal with my
When you think of the word adult many things may come to mind; age, responsibility, being the bigger person and goals are just a few. Everyone eventually becomes an adult but just because you turn eighteen does not mean you should be considered as one. “I think one of the defining moments of adulthood is the realization that nobody 's going to take care of you. That you have to do the heavy lifting while you 're here. And when you don 't, well, you suffer the consequences.” (Adam Savage, brainyquote.com) Adulthood requires sacrifice and a good mindset. Sometimes people aren’t shown how to take care of themselves, this being either too babied or not having anyone to look up to. Growing up is hard but no one says you have to do it alone. It is nice to get advice here and there from those that have been through the newly-adulted stage. Being an adult is not just an age.