There are many forms of marriage around us. They can go from open marriage to religious marriages. With this, marital bliss plays a big role within a couple’s marriage in life. Marital bliss is a form of complete happiness found or also showing that married couples agree to each other on most cases. This shows that marriage has a steady way of a balance but how does the marriage work?
Marriage can work in a variety of ways depending on situation they’re both involved in. Both sides have to work together for situations to be solved and be fixed. Therefore, this shows how some marriages can be successful. Many marriages can be successful, but in the current century, marriages don’t quite succeed due to various reasons. From past centuries to the twenty-first century, there have been many parts of marriage that have changed.
In today’s marriage the meaning of trust tends to go in different directions, especially with maintaining loyalty to one another. In the new generation stepping in, loyalty to one another takes part in of the major steps of marriage. Loyalty means to keep good faith and maintain the actual promises, fidelity and true faith until death and to eternity and to be honest with one another. With keeping high loyalty to one another in past marriages, they can last for many years.
Personalities are also part of a major shift of relationships and marriages for the couple. The Attitude of each side of the couple play’s a big role within keeping mutual marriage bond. Within this also, choosing the right the person is very difficult in this generation. People in this generation on an honest note have been showing a lot of individualism and that part will make a marriage difficult if they don’t care about one another...
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From what’s been shown in conclusion, marital bliss is shown to be having a steady successful marriage. In parts it may not be perfect , but its sustainable with a well maintained balance of both sides.
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While marriage is still quite alive, the rates are definitely declining. It is interesting to distinguish the qualities and characteristics of relationships between generations. At some point, marriage would succeed or fail depending on happiness and satisfaction of couples. Today, there is high expectation between couples. Arlene Skolnick talks about a few different topics one of them being “ For better and for Worst”. For this topic Arlene Skolnick talks about a sociologist Jesse Bernard argument that every marriage consists of two other marriages, his and hers, and how marriages typically favors men rather than the women. He sates that that the stresses that are experienced in a marriage come from expectations between the husband and wife. Anther topic Arlene Skolnick talks about is “Marriage is Movie, Not a Snapshot”. For this topic Arlene Skolnick talks a little about Heroclitis the ancient Greek philosopher saying of how “you can never step into the same river twice, because it is always moving” and how this is smaller to a marriage. Arlene Skolnick talks about a few different studies that where done over a short period of time demonstrating that families, marriages, and people can change over
Human beings are not isolated individuals. We do not wander through a landscape of trees and dunes alone, reveling in our own thoughts. Rather, we need relationships with other human beings to give us a sense of support and guidance. We are social beings, who need talk and company almost as much as we need food and sleep. We need others so much, that we have developed a custom that will insure company: marriage. Marriage assures each of us of company and association, even if it is not always positive and helpful. Unfortunately, the great majority of marriages are not paragons of support. Instead, they hold danger and barbs for both members. Only the best marriages improve both partners. So when we look at all three of Janie’s marriages, only her marriage to Teacake shows the support, guidance, and love.
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