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Have you ever wondered who taught you to talk the way you do? People learn to talk and express themselves everyday of their lives. Starting from the day you were born you used language or some form of it to communicate with those around you. As a baby you usually show your displeasure with your new surroundings by crying, and if you don’t the doctor will make sure you do. Everyday we express our point of view to others in some form of language. Whether it is through verbal communication, written discourse or through body language, you can tell if a person is upset, angry, or happy. We as human beings don’t realize how much language has to do with our lives. How can you determine if one of your friends is angry with you? Is there a different tone to their voice? Do they have a stern look on their face? Of course they do, your friend feels the need to express their anger to you by these different forms of language. Where do we learn to use these different forms of language? How are our uses of these languages shaped? The three main contributing factors to how we express ourselves through language come from our schooling, our friends, and most of all from our families.
Going to school can teach you many things, even more than you can imagine. Who would know that in school you could actually learn a whole new vocabulary? This never seen before vocabulary will only come out in writing and besides that will be hidden deep among the depths of your subconscious. Truly, school can teach you more than just random information. Schooling has a huge affect on language you use in a daily basis. The only place where I was ever taught that the way in which I spoke was wrong. When I look back at the time consuming vocabulary work and the never-ending readings, I now realize how I benefited from them. I may not me the best writer, but I do have a plethora of words to share. Where do you think you learned that you’re not doing good you’re doing well, and who taught you that a coma should be placed here, or that you shouldn’t end a sentence with a preposition, without these helpful teachings I don’t know where we would be at.
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So now you know what the three major components of how we learn how to use language. We communicate through common language with others, without common language we would not be able to express ourselves in the same ways. Our schooling has tried to teach us how to speak properly, and how to write well. Without schooling we would have to rely on what we learn from our parents and friends, and we all know that is not the best idea. So schooling has taught us what how we should express ourselves. The second way we have learned language is through our friends. Our friends and peers only teach us how we should express ourselves and also how to communicate when with each other. This is a nice break from what we have been taught to do, being able to sit with your friends and say anything that comes to your head is definitely a plus. Although using the same discourse as you do when engaging in discussions with your friends in a real life situation might not be good it is a necessity. Your friends teach you how you should express yourself. Lastly we come to the most influencing part of your life, your family. The ones who know you inside and out, those who will still be communicating with you in some form of language fifty years down the road. Although not always right, and you might find out in a way that makes you look less intelligent, your family strives to teach you the language they know the communication they are used to and how to communicate when speaking with them. Family teaches us how we should express ourselves. The truth is that all three ways teach us how to communicate and express ourselves to one another. This is how we are able to communicate with such a wide range of people. Through our sometimes repetitive schooling, and through our sometimes unintelligent friends, but mostly through our down to earth families we learn how to use language to express ourselves.