The Unspoken Principles of Life The unspoken principles of life that I have live by and have helped me find my success in life and been key to my survival. These principles and ethics have helped with me grow into the man I am today. It has also help with all three of my Marine Corp combat deployments and recovering from my injury that earned me a Purple Heart. Everyone lives by there own set of rules and regulation, that has shaped them and taught them to be who they are. The main principles that I will discuss are those of honesty, loyalty, never to judge, respect, attitude and common sense, just knowing who you are. The principles that I have learned have been thought by growing up in a gang and drug filled lifestyle. This wasn’t by choice this was the life I was born in to, there will always …show more content…
Having respect came quick for me, I lived in a bad neighborhood were saying the wrong thing or speaking to someone in the wrong way could get you hurt. I always stay come and cool with everyone and treated him or her how I like to be treated. I also never wanted to get hurt or picked on for not having respect. Just because I would show respect for these people didn’t mean I always had it for them, most of the time it was just to stay out of trouble and not have to deal with the low lives. Common sense was another big principle that helped me, not every kid understands what it really is to have common sense. Other thought of me to be very mature and have a great amount of control. When really all I had was common sense, staying quite and not speaking out or being over rambunctious didn’t have much to do with me being mature. It was just you never want unwanted attention or for unnecessary eyes on you. This came from never wanting to get those around me in trouble, whether it being brother, mom, sister or just the bed people that were always
Respect is a such a simple concept and a virtue that should be simple to follow. It means treating other people and animals in a dignified manner. Respect doesn’t mean that people need to hug everyone they come across or hold their opinion higher than everyone elses. Respect means treating others as equals and acknowledging that as human
Proper respect for others begins by a person respecting their self. Respect is developed by expressing honor, leadership, value, and trust in a person. If everyone respects everyone someday, the world will become a seventh heaven. It is important to be respectful for safety, to abide by the law, because children are influenced by their elders’ actions, and because God says so. Motivation from peers can help a person realize there is always room to improve the level of respect a person exhibits. Respect was, is, and always will be a positive attribute for everyone to strive for in their lives.
I think that one of the most important things it to show love and be kind to everyone. Of course not to the point where advantage is taken but life is much better when you love the people around you. I do believe that “love makes the world go round” and that not enough love is a big problem with the world. The people you love is what makes your life so great. We also never know when the last day is so it is good to mindful of how you love your loved ones and make sure that you’re loving them in a way they deserve to be loved. Although I’m only 19 I have life lessons that I have learned that I think are great things to live by. My first life lesson would be to always be kind. It’s very simple but creates a world of a difference. This means so much to me in so many ways. Kindness will make a person feel better even if they aren’t that way themselves. I’ve seen the change simple kindness can do. It can change the outlook on someone’s life or give someone a little hope. My second life lesson is to always have a positive attitude. Do not be negative. Negativity has no good to it and all it does is throw people down. It’s important that you radiate a positive attitude to other people because they will feel better about being around you. I used to have a negative outlook on life and think that everything was horrible. Now that I’ve gotten older I’ve seen the importance of positivity. By me changing my negative
When it comes to family I was raised to be respectful of my elders and those around me; however I was also taught to speak my mind when I did not agree. Growing up I met many people who were not allowed to say no to their parents or elders because it was disrespectful. I believe this trait helped me be more open with teachers and family overall. I was also raised to respect women, which is something you do not see often in American culture anymore. I was raised to open doors for women and let them have my seat. As a kid people do things because this is the way people are taught; once people grow up you realize showing people respect is the right thing to do so you continue to do so.
Throughout my life, I have met countless role models (supervisors, co-workers, teachers, coaches, my parents) who push me harder and harder every single day so that I will succeed beyond belief in the changing world of today. Respect is also holding you up to an expectation that gets tougher and tougher because I am pushing myself harder. I will always have respect for all today, tomorrow, and the future
The moment that stuck out to me for respect was when Rick sat with Q and listened to this problems, the old Rick never would have taken the time to listen to Q’s problems. I can use this skill in my life by showing respect to others in order to receive that same respect. A way to work towards this is by giving people the space that they need.
In conclusion respect is wrapped around our day to day lives. A famous philosopher once said “Respect is showing acknowledgement for some ones superiority in a certain field.” You can’t buy, demand, or force people to respect you but you can respect others in order for them to respect you. What people do not understand is that if we use common sense we would be respecting ourselves, respecting others, and respecting property all the time. Respecting yourself, others, and property might not be easy to do but it does have great rewards if you just do it.
I feel that doing what you say you will, and treating others as you want to be treated are principles that should not only be looked at as great strengths but as internal values that convey credibility. When people trust you and know they can come to you without judgment, it offers them a sense of security and peace.
Respect is a behavior that shows another person moral and ethical acceptance. Showing respect for another, even when not deserved, is considered to be a good sign of breeding in times past, but now as where society has changed, dissing "show disrespect for" has become more accepted, this behavior suggests a cultural shift from rewarding kindness and self-restraint to applauding a more open expression of hospitality through rudeness. Perhapes there is a lessening of concern over being respectable, along with an increased vigilance oto make sure one is respected.Concludeing that Civility must beging with the individual person making small sacraficiesfor others.
These lessons and traits I have taught myself, have helped me become a better person with a dependable future. Forgive all who wrong you, love your family and friends, but love your enemies more. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Remember that obtaining perfection is impossible in your life on earth and remember that you show who you are through your actions, not what you look like. Be grateful of your current state; you are alive and can change the world and all who inhabit it through your actions and words. Help, give, and pray for the less fortunate. “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.”-Jesus Christ.
You could be kind to them in that being you do things they would ask of you or ask that you not do. Also you could also be honest with as in you don't lie if that ask you about a serious matter you keep a secret or you tell them something that they should know or what you think is good or bad that they are doing. One of the most important ones is that you treat them the way you would like to be treated, The Golden Rule. So, that is a major key in to having someone respect you and not just you but your things as well. Way to many people forget that respect is not that hard to give n
The second form of respect is the respect of property. This includes anything from writing on a desk at school to stealing from a department store. Property, whether it is the school's, a company's, a stranger's, or a friends, should always be respected. Respect means taking that extra few seconds to drive the speed limit so as not to hit anyone or anything. It means not smashing a pumpkin at Halloween just for fun. It means not throwing that piece of trash on the ground. That is respect.
In life there are several factors that influence the way people think and make decisions. For me, those factors would mainly be my family, school and religion. Every experience someone has helps shape who they become. Some experiences and lessons are good while others will leave you questioning the world we live in; people do horrible unethical things however to them they believe it to be okay.
They always told me to respect others no matter who they were, if I knew them or not, it 's a sign of respect from me and to the other person. It will show that I did grow up with a good education and it will also talk good about my parents. They always told me and kept reminding me that actions speak louder than words, to always show something that I was made of and not something that I 'm not. Hearing other people out, it shows your interests or even if you 're not, but try to show it because it 's showing respect to that person. Being respectful is a big part of me, I can never forget that, because if I want to be respected, I respect other people, to treat them the same way as I want to be treated, even if I think that I 'm not going to receive it back, and if I don 't, it shows that I 'm the bigger person. I guess that showing gratitude was one of the first thing that my parents showed me when I was younger, I always remember when I would receive something they would whisper in my ear or tell me to say "thank you" same thing if I wanted something, to say "please". To respect myself and not let others take
Respect is showing love, when you love someone you protect them from hurt. It gives comfort to the heart to be with someone who respects you. I gained confidence through being faithful to my marriage and putting my focus on one family. A husband and wife should build each other up, not tear each other down. I have come to believe and stand by the word of God in my marriage and not a day goes by that I do not appreciate my children and especially my wife for treating me as a man I have grown to be.