The Triple Advantage: Three Traits Of The Triple Package

The triple package is more than likely the safest bets to be successful what are they exactly? Basically three traits that many people have in common these traits are impulse control, a sense of superiority and insecurity or low self esteem to put it in easier terms. Having these traits gives people a sort of chip on their shoulder it motivates them to be successful one way or the other and always keeps striving for more. These are traits I have witnessed growing up as my older brother Javier seems to have been molded with the triple package himself. But is it the best way to actually attain success since so many people with the triple package who are quote on quote successful never do fully feel like they are and their self esteem never does
According to the article “What drives success?” in a study performed by sociologist Ruben G. Rambaut on over 5,000 immigrant’s children, he asked how many felt compelled to achieve and be successful as a way to repay all of the hard work and sacrifice their parents had made for them. Many acknowledged and agreed that yes, that was a reason as to why they had to achieve success not just for themselves but also for their parents. One thing my brother always seems to talk about is how when he first arrived to this country he was given a choice to either get a pair of shoes or get some cleats but he couldn’t have both because there just wasn’t enough money he choose the cleats and had to wear them to school were kids made fun of him for it that’s something he’s never forgotten and one of the things that’s pushed him to do more the other thing has been our parents who basically left everything behind to give us a better life so he feels the responsibility to repay them back for all the hard work they’ve put in throughout the
Many feel like just no matter what they do, they will never be able to please their parents who expected and demanded great things from them. So while there are positives to the triple package there are also problems that are associated with it. Each of the traits in the triple package while beneficial when striving for success are possibly the same traits that prevent a person from being able to enjoy all the hard work that they have put in, in order to be successful. Looking at the way my brother behaves and is I get the impression that he is not enjoying all the success he has achieved he always seems stressed out and just seems to be happier when he is working than when he’s not. Impulse control can affect the way a person experiences beauty, tranquility and joy. While insecurity will make them feel like they are never good enough and need to accomplish more. And lastly the superiority complex has them thinking that they still haven’t done enough worthy of their culture and legacy which is what I see when I look at my older brother and someone who doesn’t feel worthy