The Glass Menagerie : Amanda Wingfield's Illusions Over Reality

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Abandoned by her husband and left penniless, Amanda Wingfield in The Glass Menagerie by Tennessee Williams, lived in a small alley apartment on the lower middle-class section of town with her two adult children Tom and Laura. This was far cry from Amanda’s youth during the Victorian era at Blue Mountain to her present situation of poverty and uncertainty. As a single mother, Amanda was worried about her family’s financial security along with concerns regarding her daughter’s lack of marital prospects; for that reason, her need to enrich her life by molding the lives of her children resulted in illusions overpowering reality that also brought out destructive illusions within herself, her son Tom, and her daughter Laura. Endowed with beauty, charm, and elegance, Amanda remembered living an affluent life at Blue Mountain where she was courted by several prospective suitors along with having spent many nights attending social balls and galas. The world she envisioned was one of formality and manners in which high expectations of a person were part of being a socialite. Amanda explains, “My callers were gentlemen—all! Among my callers were some of the most prominent young planters of the Mississippi Delta—planters and sons of planters!” (1617) As time went by, Amanda married a man who did not fulfill the expectations of sophistication and monetary abundance that she had visualized; hence, shattering the lifestyle she imagined for herself and her children. Amanda’s demanding and idealistic views along with the stories of past suitors were too much for her husband to bear so he ultimately abandoned her and their children for another woman he had a long distance affair. Poverty stricken, Amanda and her family relied heavily on th... ... middle of paper ... ... damaging that it held her son’s confidence in himself back and diminished any dreams of a normal life for her daughter. Amanda confessed, “Why can’t you and your brother be normal people? Fantastic whim and behavior!” (1639) Amanda’s illusion affected the family and herself mostly because she did not want to appreciate the bright, beautiful, and kind children she had around her for the reason that she was too blinded by paranoia and the belief that nothing and no one was ever good enough. The result of her actions drove her son Tom to finally leave home to join the Merchant marines and her daughter to seek shelter in her own world of fantasy with no hope for a normal life. Amanda proclaims,”My devotion has made me a witch and so I make myself hateful to my children.” (1627) Amanda was a mother trapped in her perception of a reality that was only an illusion.

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