Teenage Motherhood And The Experiences Of Teenage Parenthood

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Teenage Motherhood Imagine this: It is one o’clock in the morning and a sixteen year old girl has just finished her homework. She drops on her bed, exhausted and ready to sleep, when she hears her baby cry. She goes to the crib, picks up the baby, and then rocks the crying baby while getting a bottle of warm formula. It is three o’clock when the baby has finished the last drop and fallen asleep. The sixteen year old girl lays down in her bed and drops into a dead sleep... BEEP! BEEP! BEEP! The alarm clock goes off and it is now six o’clock in the morning. She rushes to get the baby dressed and fed before she gets ready. She must take the baby to daycare before she goes to school. Right after school, she has to pick up the baby from daycare. She has no time for anything or anyone else, including friends and alone time. Becoming a teenage mother is burdensome, strenuous, and it can ruin all future plans, including college, a social life, and possibly even your family. Teenagers are naive to the experience of teen parenthood because they do not realize the …show more content…

When I told my mom, she cried and her boyfriend called me a “dumbass”. When I told the father, he was hoping I’d get an abortion so he didn’t have to grow up and become a dad. The rest of my family was accepting at first, but now they treat me like I’m a terrible mom. My family was also pushing me towards an abortion, but I didn’t want it. My mom also gave me the option of her adopting, but I wasn’t really sure I wanted that either. I don’t regret becoming a mom, but I wish it could have waited because I miss being a teenager. I don’t have a social life anymore because only two friends out of the many I had during sophomore year stuck around. The only things I do now are sit at home and watch my baby. I have given up friends, a job, a social life, respect from others, and I may have to give up my career because I might not be able to go to college

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