Teaching Our Children Common Courtesy and Etiquette

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Seeing a young child disrespect their elders is a pet peeve of many adults. Common Courtesy is on the brink of extinction, especially among out youngest generation. Proper etiquette remains an essential component to common courtesy. Though teachers already have their hands full with America’s failing education system, teaching etiquette may be very beneficial. Moreover, parents no longer instruct their children on common courtesy, perhaps because they have not learned it themselves, which hinders an entire generation from their full potential for success.
As stated by Edward Owens, “civility is a language of sorts, it's better learned young”. Schools are children’s second home. These days with both parents working, and grandparents no longer having a major role in the family unit a child rarely gets the opportunity to learn moral and social values from home. Teaching etiquette in school would reinforce what the child should be learning at home. The First impression is the last impression, for this reason using etiquette increases our importance and respect in the eyes of others. Knowing what sort of tone should be used while talking with different people, making request to pass on food, keeping elbows of the table will ensure harmony in the lives of children. The goal of character education is to raise emotionally balanced, socially compassionate, and caring individuals with a solid value system. Most importantly, learning to treat everyone would respect and courtesy may help the every growing of bullying in this country. According to Jeremy Willinger, “Along with increased self-confidence and the ability to relate to others… the potential for school violence can also be reduced by practicing the responsible behavior stressed ...

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