Sullivan Ballou: A War Hero

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Throughout life, an individual must undergo many obstacles to reach their life's climactic point of success. Regrettably, an individual may not be able to enjoy their life's highest point of accomplishment-because they are deceased! For example, in “A Letter to His Wife, 1861”, Sullivan Ballou (1861) died in the First Battle of Bull Run, a war led by former President Abraham Lincoln. Ballou wrote a letter to his beloved wife named Sarah; the delivery of the letter was contingent upon his death. Ballou fought for what he believed in- civil rights, and the safety of his country; I believe Ballou reached the climactic point in his life when he died for his country: a war hero. Sullivan Ballou's family suffered a great loss upon his death, he was a loving father and husband. Ballou also realized he experienced a great loss, when he stated “The memories of the blissful moments I have spent with you come creeping over me, and I feel most gratified to God and to you that I have enjoyed them so long.”(p.445) On the date Ballou's letter was written, I believe his life flashed before his eyes, and he was able to collect all of the great memories he shared with his family and expose them in his touching letter. Ballou acknowledged how fortunate he was, when he was enjoying life with his family; he realized the loss he would undergo upon his failure to return to them. Ballou was a honorable man, and although he left behind a family: wife & two sons; Ballou realized it was his responsibility to fight a war that can end suffering for his country as a whole, but in return, the war can create a new form of suffering for his family, upon his death. Ballou admitted his faults to his wife in his letter, he stated “Forgive my many faults... ... middle of paper ... ...ade to choose him for the spiritual task. Job realized he had to experience loss and suffering in the name of God to pass the test God bestowed upon him. God stated “Who is that darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Gird up your loins like a man, I will question you, and you shall declare to me... Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth” (p.667) God notified Job he was in no position to question the loss he must undertake in order to complete his mission. Job realized the meaning of his life, when he realized the magnitude God went to convince him of his calling. Job forgave himself for his sacrifices, because he realized it was instructed by God. Unfortunately life has many hurdles and roads unturned. I do not feel we should regret the mistakes we have made in our past. Or else, we may be too hesitant to make correct choices in our future.

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