In the short story, there is a mother talking to her daughter about what is expected of her being a female in the 1940’s and 1950’s, the time when the story was written, a woman was expected to be a housewife and stay at home. The house was to be spotless, children the same, dinner on the table as soon as the husband came home from work, and she was not to complain about anything. When the couple were dating there was nothing other than kissing and hugging. When the couple got married the woman was expected to be a virgin while the man was expected to know how to please his wife.
The story really is just one really long sentence where the mother is talking down to the girl. This story makes the d...
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... you; this is how to love a man, and if this doesn’t work there are other ways, and if they don’t work don’t feel too bad about giving up so that she is not completely under a man’s full control. Her mother tells her how to be at least a little self-reliant in the ways of how to catch fish and grow okra.
Regardless of what age you live in or what generation you are, there are expectations as to how you are to act and how you are to be. It falls on our parents to teach us what society deems appropriate and what it does not. Most parents teach with love and compassion while others with aloofness and a since of it being a burden. However, people can not obtain true happiness if they are not true to themselves and how they want to be. Humans by nature should just be who and what they want to be without having to be expected to be or do something that they are not.
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