Sex after 50 years old. What is the stigma? Nowadays, people who continue to have sex over the age of 50 are often categorized under taboo. A question for people who turn the other way about the topic, what is the "socially acceptable" cut-off age for sexual relations? When does it become inappropriate for two consenting adults to have sex? It seems to be, that the standard sexual peek acceptable by society 's standards is at 18 years old, and ceasing at menopause for women, and around 50 years of age for men. The thought of two elderly people having intimate relations is a sort of unthinkable thought, but what society doesn 't know, is it happens more often than people think. Sex as we know it comes into play with three different categories. Psychological, physiological, and social aspect. Psychological is the way it takes place on the mind, and how it the mentality is effected. Physiological, or biology, is the way it effects the body and physical state. Social aspect is the way society perceives, which can play a huge major role on the definitive sex roles people play. Culture is a huge key factor in the social aspect of sex. In America, women are held to the same standard as men, whereas women in the Middle East are more submissive to men. As seen in the cartoon above, the photo depicts two elderly people, presumed to be in a long marriage. The woman says to the man "They 're adult diapers in a thong...I told you I was bringing sexy back..." To which the old man replies "Sweet Angel of Death, please take me now." The cartoon depicts the woman as trying to engage in sexual conquests with her presumed husband in a physical manor trying to rile him biologically. It 's guessed that the older man physiologically has had enough o... ... middle of paper ... ...view and just appreciate the humor the comic brings. In closing, the cartoon by E. Decentis doesn 't properly showcase the real world around seniors today. It is no longer considered to be taboo for the elderly to have sex, as same with younger people to have sex. Once you hit a certain age, that doesn 't imply that the sex life is shut down until the day you die. Medical happenings may occur that may make sex harder for some, but will not slow them down. The human evolutionary trait that demands sex for personal enjoyment, and entertainment versus just to reproduce does not stop at the age 50, but could potentially make someone over the age more active. Psychologically , intercourse for elders can be beneficial, along with physiologically to live healthier lifestyles. After 50, people are not ready for the release of death, but rather enjoy the time they have left.
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If you really think about it, society is already starting to stray away from the term “old”. Instead, people are calling 90 year olds 90 years young. Even in talk shows and just from talking to people in general, we see/ hear about 90 year olds doing yoga, running a business or do...
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