Relationship: Love And Relationships

RELATIONSHIP: To Be or Not To Be

Relationships have diverse emotions. It may begin happily normally the first stage, then

a couple may feel sadness or even hate for the relationship. The couple may start to move

distant from each other. And unfortunately, the relationship may end in something the two

may have never though possible, separation. Don’t let this happen to you! This is the

relationship with Michelle and Michael.

Michelle had been in a relationship with Michael for one year and six months. She was

eighteen years old, a preacher’s kid, light skin complexion like honey, five foot four, and very

smart, making valedictorian of her senior high school class. She had a very painful past behind

They are now back together and

as happy as they were when they first got together. Their happiness meter was at a hundred

percent.

The key ingredient in any relationship is trust, especially as we grow older. Coupled

with respect and love, trust gives you a strong basis as a couple. While trust is a bond, it is also

a tenuous one, easily broken, if one of the partners constantly lies.

Relationships don’t create joy, they reflect it. Joy comes from within. Relationships are

simply mirrors of the combined joy that two people have as individuals. What you see in the

mirror is what you see in your relationships. Your disappointments in your partner often reflect

your disappointments in yourself. Your acceptance of your partner often reflects your

acceptance of yourself. Thus, the first step to having a healthy relationship with someone else

is to have a healthy relationship with yourself.

People make mistakes. Crap happens. There’s no reason to shatter your relationship

into pieces over spilt milk. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask

yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?” If not, then let it go