Reflection About Sex In School

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Growing up with two conservative Christian parents I felt secluded and unaware from the reality of sex and how it played a role in my life. I felt confused about how to react about sexual behavior because I was being taught two different things in school and church. My church and parents never talked about sexual behavior, the only thing I knew was that sex was supposed to be saved until marriage with no questions asked. If any teens had any questions about it, they would be seen as rebels for questioning that topic. In contrast to my church, my school portrayed a whole different aspect about sex. My peers and friends in school portrayed sex as a normal thing that everyone did. My school instated the idea that sex was a natural thing and that …show more content…

As I hit puberty I started to question everything I was taught in church about sex. I wanted to know why it was such a taboo topic that no one wanted to talk about. I question that if in society sex was a normal thing, why was it not the same in church. When I tried to ask my parents about sex, they would always change the conversation or they would tell me to go to my room. They always felt uncomfortable talking about anything sexual. Even when we watched television or a movie, they always changed the channel or skipped the scene. My parents always portrayed sex as a bad thing that should not be talked about with …show more content…

I never viewed pregnancy as a bad thing that ended your life. Instead I viewed it as something special that definitely could change your life but it was something beautiful that not all women could have. I saw the struggles that my friends had throughout their pregnancy and after they had their babies. Many of my friends were not able to go out because they had to take care of their baby. They couldn’t buy themselves new clothes because they had to either buy their baby food or they had to buy their baby diapers or other necessities that they needed. At that point in my life, I decided that although it was a beautiful thing, I wasn’t mature or ready to have such a big change in my life. I realized that being a teen mom was a hard job where there had to be a lot of sacrifices that I wasn’t sure I was able to make at that point in my

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