Pros And Cons Of Sexless Marriage

If you are in a marriage where the sex has disappeared, you may feel like you are facing a marital problem that other people don 't seem to have. But, the fact is that people don 't openly talk about the lack of sex in their marriage, so it 's really hard to tell how happy other people are with their sex life. Psychologists estimate that millions of couples are currently in a marriage where sex is no longer a big part. In fact, they think that up to 20 percent of married couples are in one. A sexless marriage can be a marriage with no sex at all, but, in definition, it means that sex is occurring less than 10 times a year. So, if you are averaging once every month and a half or so, then you are in a sexless marriage.

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However, there are other reasons that a woman may be avoiding sex in the marriage, including:

- Her spouse is more about the act of sex than the connection that sex brings

- She does not want to engage in the type of acts that her husband wants to engage in

- She is feeling unattractive after a weight gain or body change and she feels too uncomfortable to have sex

- She is holding on to feelings of anger or frustration with her spouse, and she is too upset and doesn 't want to engage in an intimate act with him

- Her spouse does not give her an orgasm and she doesn 't enjoy sex because of that

- Her spouse doesn 't give her an orgasm and she doesn 't want to disappoint him

- Her spouse doesn 't make her feel good emotionally in the relationship

As said, these are just general reasons that a couple may not be having sex in the marriage, but they are common reasons. And, they are definitely a place to start from towards fixing your marriage and getting it back on track. Most people believe that the lack of sex is their fault, but as you can see that is not always the