“ You want to be the same as American girls on the outside.” (Tan, Amy) Like Tan in her narrative “Fish Cheeks”, everyone has had a time in their lives when they wanted to fit in at school or home. Sometimes it is hard to try to blend into the surroundings. Moving from Boston to Tallahassee has taught me a lot about such things like honor, pride, and self-reliance. Such is related to us in Wilfred Owens’s “Dulce et Decorum est” which is about his experience in World War I. Sometimes experiences such as moving can teach more about life than any long lecture from any adult. As the old saying goes: “Actions speak louder than words.”
Growing up in Boston for thirteen years did not prepare for what life had in store for me. I moved here two months before I was to begin the eighth grade. Culture shock does not even begin to describe what I felt. Where had my parents stuck me? Why did we have to leave our apartment in the city to move to what I refer to as “The old acreage house” in the boonies? Moreover, like many middle aged people going through their mid-life crisis: Why me? I know what George Orwell must have been feeling in “Shooting in Elephant” and “The Hanging”. He was of European descent and he was in the middle of Burma experiencing an “Anti-European” feeling. Isn’t it weird the way fate cold possible mix two totally unrelated things together?
It certainly got worse after September 11. Who knew that many of the people who I would later become friends with or classmates of could be so hateful?
“Hey are you Muslim?
“If you are, I’d hurry up and leave the country- Osama Bin Laden.”
Let me give you a little taste of my background. My mother happens to be...
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... will help the migrant workers as much as I can since there is very little that I can do lawfully at my age.
For many people like myself, I lean more and better from experience. Life is a great teacher although there may be some lessons that take time to learn. Life shapes who we are and who we become and certain states of affairs seem to guide us in a certain direction. Dealing with these certain events in my life has driven me to work harder and persevere. The immigrants often cannot do much but work in the fields and I was lucky to have been born in this country. I have the opportunity to get a higher paying job even starting at minimum wage. These people have been my driving force to use in life as a tool to further inform people but also as a reminder of where I have been and where I am going. All of this I have learned thanks to a good instructor:
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