The Roman Catholic View of Marriage
People decide to get married to each other for many different reasons,
but many of them evolve around love and that they want to spend the
rest of their lives together forever.
Marriage is one of seven sacraments available for a Catholic to take.
These sacraments show a person commitment and love to the Church and
to God, it shows that they are a 'Whole' Catholic, if you know what I
mean.
Most of these sacraments take place during a mass, whilst celebrating
God.
The Marriage ceremony can be divided into different areas, to be
specific there are eight main areas and these are:
* The greeting
* The Sermon (Homily)
* The Marriage Ceremony
* The Marriage Vows
* Acceptance of Consent and the Blessing
* Exchanging of the Rings
* The Marriage Nuptial (Blessing)
* The signing of the Marriage Blessing
Before the Mass has even begun the priest welcomes the bride and
bridegroom and wishes them the best of luck. The Priest says this on
behalf of the congregation, this symbolises that the congregation are
with the bride and bridegroom and letting them know that they are
there to share the joy of the happy occasion. The congregation are
there, as is the priest, as witnesses to this sacrament.
During the Sermon the Priest will usually talk about what is meant by
a Christian wedding, he will mention the dignity of being married and
loved. He will also mention the responsibilities of marriage showing
that the couple are growing closer to God by loving each other.
This Sermon represents the responsibilities that a couple will have to
undertake during their mar...
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... and legally married.
There are other symbols that are associated with the wedding. Brides
traditionally wear a white dress with a veil. In the old days the
whiteness of the dress would symbolise the virginity of the bride that
she has reserved the greatest gift for her husband. However in modern
times this tradition has been forgotten about but there are some who
do follow this ancient tradition.
To some up all of the points above here are four brief bullet points:
* Marriage is a sign of God's love and the couple love and serve God
as they love each other.
* Marriage is a lifelong relationship ending only in death.
* Marriage is special; it is unique, exclusive and permanent.
* Marriage has the possibility of life giving and has the opportunity
of children and needs a lot of hard work with parenthood.
Sherif Girgis wrote his article, “Marriage: Whose Justice? Which Diversity?” in response to John Corvino’s, “What Marriage Can Be” article. Corvino’s article introduced the inclusivist view of marriage and then attacked Girgis’ conjugal view of marriage, which was introduced in Girgis’ book, “What is Marriage? Man and Woman: A Defense.” Corvino’s inclusivist view was meant to expand the definition of marriage, not re-define it (Corvino, p.6) and although Corvino’s defense of the inclusivist view was, “sophisticated, civil and well-informed” according to Girgis, it was also, “Contradicting virtually every philosophical and legal tradition until yesterday, it nonetheless offers no positive case for its thesis” (Girgis, p.1). Girgis obviously does not agree with Corvino’s inclusivist/revisionist view, but he does so on the basis that it has too many weaknesses. The conjugal view is superior as it most properly defines what true marriage is and should be. In the ensuing sections, I shall describe what the conjugal view of marriage is and why Girgis believes it to be superior to both the
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Text Box: “I, (name) do take thee, (Name) to be my lawful wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.†A quote from the traditional Wedding Mass
marriage is an eternal bond that lasts beyond the afterlife (The Book of Mormon D&C. 132.19).
to do and a guarantee to each partner. If we ask an engaged couple why
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In conclusion, the metaphor of marriage used throughout the Bible to illustrate the relationship between God and His people and the institution of human marriage. Marriage is a covenant and you must not break it because it is like breaking God’s covenant. One should love each other like Christ love us. God joined the two people together as one flesh therefore divorce is unacceptable.
What is Marriage? Marriage is when people are being united together as husband and wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by the law. Marriage hasn’t always been how it is now, where women have a say in family problems, and where woman have the right to choose whom they want to marry. Before during the ancient times, women had to marry those in their families, and could not marry those that were Marriage use to be all about doing what you needed to support your family, which meant you married someone who was able to give you what you needed. Marriage wasn’t because you loved someone, but it was always because people wanted to preserve power. Now in the marriage, people marry, because they love each other, and because they want to make an effort to spend the rest of their lives together.
When we think of marriage, the first thing that comes to mind is having a lasting relationship. Marriage is a commitment of two people to one another and to each other?s family, bonded by holy matrimony. When a couple plans to marry, they think of raising a family together, dedicating their life to each other. That?s the circle of life--our natural instinct to live and produce children and have those children demonstrate your own good morals. I have never been married; but I don?t understand why when two people get married and vow to be together for richer and poorer, better or worse, decide to just forget about that commitment. A marriage should be the most important decision a person makes in his or her life.
God intended for us to be united with the opposite sex since the beginning of time. The book of Genesis tells us: "God created man in his image, He created him in the image of God, man and woman, He created them. God saw what he had done and said, "This is good, it is not good that man should be alone."(McLachlan 5). Marriage is inherently good and pleasing to God. It was part of God's original plan for mankind. It is also shown that Jesus held marriage in great esteem, for it was at a wedding where he performed his first public miracle. Furthermore, it is Jesus who raises Marriage to a Sacrament of the New Law. Our Lord is also the one who told us that divorce was wrong. He says, "What God has joined together, no human being must separate."(Matrimony 1).
Since the beginning of creation, marriage has been a vitally important role in a Christian’s life. From Adam and Eve to current times, marriage has been seen as a turning point in one’s life. God created this relationship between humans in order to fulfill our needs. The first important role of marriage in a Christian’s life is listed in Genesis 2:18, which says, “It is not good for the man to be alone.” This verse displays that it is important for humans to have companions. In this verse, God states that a part of his creation is not good, which was the first time he thought this about an aspect of creation. God saw marriage as a way to reflect His image in us. Genesis 1:26-27 shows this reflection, “Let us make