My Family: An Important Aspects Of A Family In The World

Family is an important element in the society nowadays, and it represents the largest amount of households. After people become mature and independent, they leave the original family where they grow up, and then they build their own family with marriage or not, and married couples or single people will continue to choose if they want to have children or not. After that, the circle continues from generations to generations, and that’s the explanation why humans still exist on this planet. During the period of growing up, every one experiences close relationships and intimacies with parents, relatives, lovers and children. However, people tend to get closer with their husbands, wives, boyfriends and girlfriends physically and psychologically.

So even though I have close relationships with someone, I won’t tell him or her all my thoughts. I think people need personal spaces. Also, my mother tells me that people all have the curiosity to explore new and fresh things. If I expose myself completely on the first date, I think I will lose the attraction to people I’m dating with. About the family, probably I will tell him a little about it. The basic information is that my family has three people, and I’m the only child in my family. Also, my family is a traditional one. For example, in our family, usually parents or grandparents make the decision, and children always listen to them. Also, my family is really into education, and my parents r push me to get high education. Furthermore, my mother is a kind and patient woman, and my father is a strict and sometimes grumpy man. The mode of their marriage is traditional. Husband works outside to earn money, and wife stays at home, and takes care of children and does the housework. So my mother is a housewife for 20 years, and I had a happy childhood because I got the full care from my

The first one is violence, either the physical or emotional one. Violent actions never happen in my family. Even though my parent will argue, there are no physical contacts or emotional abuses happened. I can’t tolerant that a man beats a woman or a woman beats a man, and I think it’s extremely inappropriate to happen between two adults. If my future boyfriend or husband beats me once, I will break up or divorce with him immediately because after it happens once, it’s going to happen twice, three times and more. My other cousin experience domestic violence during her growth. Her parents are grumpy, so if she doesn’t follow their rules, she gets beaten or slapped. Now she has a little difficulty to keep relationships with others, and she can’t control her emotion well. I think that connects with the violence she experienced directly. As a result, violence is the top one element that I cannot accept at