The Importance Of Sexuality

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In life, there is some individuals that would go throughout life not knowing their true sexuality and gender. Living in a life that is confuse and regret. As for me, I was always told my identity and what my sexual preference should be. It all comes from my culture background, my race, faith and what society tells me. There are many elements that shape and form who I am as well as my sexuality. Being a black woman who is also Christian, having romantic feeling and/or relation with a woman does not seem to be acceptable. Family also plays a role in my identity and the culture background of my family. What society expects me to be from the moment I was born is to be a female and to be with a man. With all of these components that I have been …show more content…

Now, everyone knows that when a woman becomes pregnant with a child in 4 months she is allow to know what sex she is having. From the womb, society already plays a role on shaping the sexuality preference. If it’s a girl, the parents would get all pink items and many dress to dress her up and if it’s a boy, blue items and toys that would be masculine. Having the sexual organs of one of two sex is what determines one’s identity and the parents will continue to push what society has to say about what you should be like. Well, for me, my parents have done everything what society would like me to be like. Have all my female organs working, wanting to be with a man and wanting to be in a institution of marriage with a man. I’ve wanted this before I even knew that I was heterosexual. Going to private school, teacher would always tell me that there is always a mommy and daddy in a household and by having both male and female parents it was a good household. Since I had that I believed that “okay I can be the mommy, now I just need to find a daddy.” I started to like boys and would only find that sex attractive. I did not come to the conclusion that I am heterosexual until a girl came to me saying that she was interested in making me her girlfriend. Instead of rejecting her completely because of my faith, I did attempt to see if that I can be with a woman. Sad to say that I could not continue the relationship because I was not attracted to her or any woman to be exact. I have a preference for men and society did a great job is molding my mind to believe

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