When one thinks of having children, he or she typically desires the “American Dream”: a big house with a yard, a perfect husband or wife, and four perfect children. The idea of having a conventional family is very appealing to most people, because it is what has been socially acceptable for a long time. There are many pros that go along with having a socially-accepted family. One has the love and support from his or her spouse, which is huge today, especially in the United States. In the U.S. alone there is nearly a 50 percent divorce rate (Divore Rate). Therefore, most people see those statistics, and realize that they want to be different and have their spouse by their side. To have both parents in a child’s life is important for the child as well. Studies show that by having both a mother and a father in a child’s life, the child is more likely to succeed in school, work related activities, as well as have better inter-relational skills. Yet, this does not mean that all children in un-conventional families are at a disadvantage, they can do just as well as the children that are in what we call “normal” families.
Children of un-conventional families tend to fall under the care of various family members, single mothers, sin...
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...ist of grandmas, brothers, aunts, uncles, and single mothers are indeed very special as well. One should not have to worry about what is socially acceptable when looking at his/her family. One should just be proud of his/her family and children because the love that is shared amongst them is grand. Today, many people are not interested in having children, and that is okay too. Those who feel that they cannot raise a child without the mother or father have to realize that it is possible, and that un-conventional families are just as beautiful as the conventional ones.
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