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The practice of using a surrogate mother to carry a couple’s potential child is a common choice for hopeful couples today. There are a few parallels between both the monetary exchange for a baby, and the monetary exchange for non-replensishable organs, in that both exchanges involve many ethical dilemmas. The contrast between the two is a very bold definition of what is essential to living, versus what is a desirable component of one’s life. On the legal end, courts are likely to weigh in favor of the maternal parents when there is a detailed contractual obligation distinguished prior to the surrogate process taking place. (Garrett 232,233)

Initially, the idea of exchanging a baby for money is a process that appears emotionless and materialistic, but when one looks at the reasoning behind the decision, it proves to be just the opposite. Many women like the one in this specific case, experience life-changing illnesses or loss that leaves them unable to bear children; this has a significant effect on women and their spouses. Females are born with the genetic make-up and desire to bear children; when that is taken from them, surrogate mothers allow them the opportunity to get a piece of that back. The process is not without an emotional rollercoaster they must ride to assume the responsibility of motherhood. Both the surrogate mother and the recipient of the baby must weigh all the risks involved before making the decision to go through with it. (Garrett 231) The risks involved with carrying the child and its toll on the surrogate’s body, as well as psych, are a few of many risks that should be considered by the surrogate. The financial and emotional strains weigh heavily upon the couple initiating the process.

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... did not desire the child from the start of the process, but later began to desire a child and unfortunately, one that is not of her genetic origin. However, the couple did have the original desire and genetic elements that makes the baby theirs. The only ownership that I feel the surrogate has, is as the carrier or processer of the fetus. There would be more emotional stress placed on the child later with doubts of true parental ownership and emotional attachment, than if the baby was handed to the biological parents. The surrogate would be basing her reasoning from a selfish and emotional stance, rather than one of true logic. Even so, the ethical theories exist, but few that can be legally backed, as of this time. (Garrett 233)

Works Cited:

Garrett, Thomas M. Health Care Ethics: Principles and Problems. Fifth ed. Upper Saddle River: Prentice Hall, 2010. Print.

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