The Importance Of Personal Relationship

There is a certain time in our lives when we feel as though we should have everything together. We feel like we made it through the childbearing years, we made it through the eighty hour work weeks just to make ends meat, we should have this in the bag. I am thinking that we can all think of a time in our lives that hasn’t gone the way we think it should. Whether it is first time meeting the parents, first child being born, first kiss, or first anything and why when we get to our midlife wouldn’t things finally be in place. That is the big question that I have, and it is a question that I asked a friend of mine to help me answer a little better. Even in your midlife, your children are still going to be a huge part of your life. From the children

Sex is something that is important to everyone but maybe more important to some rather than others and it is a good thing if both the husband and wife are on the same page. When I talked to my friend about this subject she said that right now in her marriage it can be hard to find the time for sex, between both her and her husband working full time and having two teenage boys at home, there isn’t enough time in the day to even think about it. Either way her and her husband can make these things work, this is not a guarantee that it works for everyone. They know that the love is there, it is the kiss goodnight, or the hand holding when going for a walk with the dogs. To them it is the little things that keep their marriage alive when the intimacy part is hard to get

When there are major stressors in a relationship, like, if a loved one died. Keeping all of that bottled in can really hurt a relationship. The more important thing it is that both sides are willing to listen, whether or not they want to hear what is or has to be said, they should listen. When a relationship comes down to it both parties have to remember that they are in it together and it is not something that can only be one sided, your problems are each other’s. When interviewing my friend I did bring up how they do not have a lot of time together, so how do they have time to sit and talk about things that may be frustrating each other? She said that sometimes not only is sex the hardest part to find time for but finding the time to sit down and have a personal/private conversation is also hard. She says, “we make time.” This means they go to dinner and talk during dinner, or when walking the dogs, they talk. “Everything can work if two people are willing to try.” She says. She offered me a helpful tip for when or if I plan to get married and she says, “be strong, but patient, be willing, but never lose your