Respect was the ideal that my parents imbedded deep into my character. In my culture, respect to your elders, respect to your teachers, classmates, and friends, you are taught to give them all your respect even if they don’t treat you the same. Whenever I had to talk to someone older than me, I had to speak to them formally which now has an effect on me to which I find it hard to talk to people informally when they ask me to. So the idea of giving respect to strangers, to my elders, and higher authorities guided how I acted and thought of things that happen in my life. When growing up, I spent a lot of the time taking care of myself and doing my own thing for my parents were mostly away from home with work trying to support me and my sister. …show more content…
My friends’ parents forced a lot on my friends, asking them to be doctors, engineers, etc. Getting them to study day and night and go to tutoring when they return with a B+ or below on any graded paper, they would be punished and grounded so they won’t make the same mistake. And I found that very strict and abusive for my parents were kind in our abilities, they knew my weaknesses and strengths and when I came back with a low grade, instead of punishing me they would say, “Do better next time, there is always room to improve.” They never put me down, but was always there to tell me that I can improve even if everything else was telling me I …show more content…
But I have a tend to struggle in finding myself not to be good enough to please myself, but more please everyone else. In my work I always try to much make something that would be above standards, but because I put my ambitions to high, I often find myself feeling down whenever I produce something below that ambition even though its a properly functioning piece. In many of my works for example my grid project and my sculptural forms final, I produced 2 functional furniture pieces and many of my friends were in awe, my professors were amazed at my craft, but I found myself unsatisfied for I didn’t meet my expectations knowing that I could be better. It could have been bigger and crafted in a more efficient way. It could have been more creative looking at my other classmates pieces. This attribute of mine I hate the most and it makes it me contradict the idea my parents planted into my head of looking forward and getting better, instead I look into the past and complain on what I could have done better and never feel satisfied on the stuff I create. This idea was put into my head due to the pressure and criticism of
Throughout my life, I have met countless role models (supervisors, co-workers, teachers, coaches, my parents) who push me harder and harder every single day so that I will succeed beyond belief in the changing world of today. Respect is also holding you up to an expectation that gets tougher and tougher because I am pushing myself harder. I will always have respect for all today, tomorrow, and the future
Proper respect for others begins by a person respecting their self. Respect is developed by expressing honor, leadership, value, and trust in a person. If everyone respects everyone someday, the world will become a seventh heaven. It is important to be respectful for safety, to abide by the law, because children are influenced by their elders’ actions, and because God says so. Motivation from peers can help a person realize there is always room to improve the level of respect a person exhibits. Respect was, is, and always will be a positive attribute for everyone to strive for in their lives.
My family raised me to respect everyone that I met either it be a man or woman. Growing up and watching my dad talk and communicate with people has stuck with me to talk the same way as my dad. With all of the handy gestures he does for people such as helping someone on the side of the road to helping an older couple find their car. My dad would always tell me to go help an older lady get something off of the top shelf it was too high. sometimes my dad is always telling me to go help and I would sometimes beat him to the problem.
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My parents have always pushed me to be better than they were. They knew that if I wanted to be successful I needed to go to college. In highschool, they always made me put my education before anything else. My parents didn’t go to college so they would always tell me to not make that mistake because their lives could have been easier if they would of just invested a few more years into their education. They would also tell me about all the opportunities that missed out on because they decided not to further their education.
Respect to me is admiring someone for their abilities, qualities, or achievements. I think respect is always earned an can never be given. As soldiers soldiers we should always respect our peers because they have made the same sacrifice as us. But as soldiers we should have a higher level of respect for our NCOs because they have done their time an have earned it. Being respectful is not hard it is simple, just treat others the way we would like to be treated ourselves.
I yelled at them, ignored them, and occasionally did the opposite they told me too. At the time, I thought that made me better than them, but in the end, it got me nowhere. Soon I entered high school and my bratty preteen-self calmed down. However, my parents became stricter on my grades because there was a big milestone that would be coming up in a few years, getting accepted into college. My parents made it very clear that if I did not get a large scholarship to any university, I would have to go to the local community college. That was the last thing I wanted to happen, I wanted out of the house. I now had a strong incentive to do well in school. I wanted to be able to go out on my own and escape their tight grasp on me. I completed year after year, always making “A’s” in my classes. I soon climbed to the top of my school’s ranking system and was at the top of my class. Though, this did not matter to me, I wanted out of my house. At this point, I knew I was not disappointing my parents, they were as proud as can be with a daughter at the top of her class. This was the first time in my life that I felt as if my parents were generally proud of me and my accomplishments. I still however, felt guilty. Even though I was doing it for myself, I felt bad that I wanted to escape my parents. I did not hate them, I just could not stand being under their control
This lack of respect comes forwards in ways of permission asking, and explaining how something works instead of letting the person learn on their own (Lee, 6-7). She has shown that there are many ways that other cultures have never had to deal with this social problem unlike the West has. Throughout her chapter she explains how the fundamental value in society should be the respect for the individual. This respect is shown through themes such as child rearing, leadership, and work. The basic resolution is to have respect for individual autonomy and therefore have respect for the individual in itself. She states, we can learn from all these other cultures that have individual integrity/autonomy as important parts within their cultures. Another basic resolution that Lee discussed was the way that respect must be kept throughout generations, as long as it keeps being passed down from parent to child, the respect will always remain in the
Respect is a behavior that shows another person moral and ethical acceptance. Showing respect for another, even when not deserved, is considered to be a good sign of breeding in times past, but now as where society has changed, dissing "show disrespect for" has become more accepted, this behavior suggests a cultural shift from rewarding kindness and self-restraint to applauding a more open expression of hospitality through rudeness. Perhapes there is a lessening of concern over being respectable, along with an increased vigilance oto make sure one is respected.Concludeing that Civility must beging with the individual person making small sacraficiesfor others.
Obedience and respect is something my culture is based on. As a little girl I grew up very attached to my mother, I followed her everywhere she went. I remember being about four years old living in a one-bedroom apartment, sharing a bed with my mom and older brother I would make him move over so I could sleep next to her on our queen sized mattress. Even though our circumstances were hard, my mother never wanted us to know that. Instead she taught us how to strive for greatest not matter what situation we were in so that later on in life we would never live this way. Being a single mother from a foreign country with only a high school diploma meant my mom had to work odd jobs to provide for myself and brother. My mother came to the
In conclusion respect is wrapped around our day to day lives. A famous philosopher once said “Respect is showing acknowledgement for some ones superiority in a certain field.” You can’t buy, demand, or force people to respect you but you can respect others in order for them to respect you. What people do not understand is that if we use common sense we would be respecting ourselves, respecting others, and respecting property all the time. Respecting yourself, others, and property might not be easy to do but it does have great rewards if you just do it.
Lower down your standards. Are you a perfectionist? If you are, then learn how to lower down your standards, accept mistakes, and go for accomplishments like “good enough.”
The second form of respect is the respect of property. This includes anything from writing on a desk at school to stealing from a department store. Property, whether it is the school's, a company's, a stranger's, or a friends, should always be respected. Respect means taking that extra few seconds to drive the speed limit so as not to hit anyone or anything. It means not smashing a pumpkin at Halloween just for fun. It means not throwing that piece of trash on the ground. That is respect.
To help students up the ladder, school indirectly teaches its students about respect. Although not found on the pages of any text book, learning lessons in respect can be very helpful. The idea of respect starts with teachers and often branches to the development of peer and self respect. Everyone has experienced a teacher that they couldn't stand and dreaded going to that class. It was times like that which challenged the respect that had begun to develop. In eight grade, my english teacher was one of the mose mean people I have ever met. I got a 0 on a quiz because I spelled one word wrong (it was not a spelling quiz). I hated going to her class, half the time, I just wanted to scream at her.
They always told me to respect others no matter who they were, if I knew them or not, it 's a sign of respect from me and to the other person. It will show that I did grow up with a good education and it will also talk good about my parents. They always told me and kept reminding me that actions speak louder than words, to always show something that I was made of and not something that I 'm not. Hearing other people out, it shows your interests or even if you 're not, but try to show it because it 's showing respect to that person. Being respectful is a big part of me, I can never forget that, because if I want to be respected, I respect other people, to treat them the same way as I want to be treated, even if I think that I 'm not going to receive it back, and if I don 't, it shows that I 'm the bigger person. I guess that showing gratitude was one of the first thing that my parents showed me when I was younger, I always remember when I would receive something they would whisper in my ear or tell me to say "thank you" same thing if I wanted something, to say "please". To respect myself and not let others take