The day I found out I was having a son changed my life for the better in so many ways that I would never have imagined. I was soon to be separating from the military and I really didn’t have a plan for my life. I was just going to go home and collect unemployment like my mom had suggested, but then it all changed in an instance. My girl came back from a trip to Atlanta with her sister to visit they cousin and I trust her so I knew it was mine but it sure was a wakeup call. But then all I could think about was what the hell do I do now cause I now have someone who depends on me coming and I can’t just go chill on my mom’s couch anymore. Also I knew I had to make sure he didn’t turn out to be the man I was for while hurting women left and right just because I could.
I have never felt so many emotion at the same time like that before I was scared, excited, and worried all at the same time. My heart was pounding a million beats a min and my eyes started to fill up with tears. Soon I began to feel this pressure like I had something to do and someone to make proud that mattered more than I did and didn’t ask to be here. My girlfriend just knew something had changed in me cause I began to smile again even thru my depression I was given a purpose I never had before this time. Now I am nothing but happy I smile every time I think the fact that soon there will be someone who looks just like me being held in my arms.
Soon after that I began to make changes in my life for the better I stopped drinking as much and sought after help for depression. I would soon after that tell my mom that I was not coming home because, I had a family to take care of and I would then begin to make plans for my future so I enrolled in college full tim...
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... to long but no more today is a new day or a new lease on life. That I didn 't deserve but was blessed to have and don 't give me wrong I 'm scared like never before but I 'm not going to let it stop me from reaching higher and realizing my dreams and goals.
I have a lot of growing up to do but I 'm ready for it all and I 'm more confident than ever that I deserve this life I was given and the people in it. I hope that I can continue to grow and some day inspire him and other that suffer like I do and let them know it gets better. Let them know that there is light at the end of this tunnel and that the future is so bright as long as you fight for it. Not only just for someone else but yourself and that 's a lesson I have learned over these last few months. This is just the beginning and it is great way to start with my treasure being born Cayden Dajour Lee Bohanan.
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