Self Reflection Paper

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“I have finished (survived, really) my first two days of grad school. I’m pretty overwhelmed to say the least. My classes are way, way, way, more intense than I anticipated. I’m going to work my life away to do well this year. Which is odd…because I’m used to doing the minimum amount of work and getting pretty good results. Life is about to catch up with me on that one I think it’s going to be easier once I get the hang of everything. It’ll be fine. I’ll be fine.” As I searched the pages of my journal to reflect on what I have learned about myself, I could feel the anxiety and panic flooding the pages. Much has changed since those first few days. Although panic and anxiety still slip up occasionally, I have learned that I truly will be fine. As a person, I am learning that I am capable to be working towards a master’s degree in counseling. When I …show more content…

I have said this before- I really believe that when someone shares their story it is a great gift. I think that their story becomes part of who we are. I think listening and receiving the gift of having someone talk to you warrants being very attentive. People are sharing their lives with you, and I believe it is so, so important to give them the gift of listening. I think this is a skill that I frequently use in my life. An example is when I got my hair cut last week, my hair stylist told me a lot about her life. I just asked questions and allowed her to talk. By the time my hair was cut and styled, I knew how many kids she had, their ages, how she used to be a stay-at-home-mother, how many siblings she and her husband each had, her family dynamics as a child, and what her Friday night plans were. I believe that this lady was going beyond the forced “small-talk” and was cognizant that I genuinely enjoyed listening to her stories. I think listening is something I am doing well at, partially because I enjoy it so

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