When I think of a life-changing moment in life, I think of a big change such as moving or getting married. However, the planning and transition time of those events take place over months- they are not narrowed down to a small time frame. Breaking a bone happens in an instant, but the life-changing lessons are learned in the next six to eight weeks when the person has to learn to live with only one arm. Many of my best characteristics were slowly built into my personality over the last seventeen years of my life, learned from life-changing periods of time. However, my experience at Girl’s State taught me more about life on earth in the first day than I had ever expected.
The stipulation of Girl’s State is that while I went with four other people
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All of a sudden, my nerves turned to excitement. I smiled hard, dropped my bags, and tried to act as friendly as possible. “Hi! I’m Liv!” I blurted.
“Hey. I’m Lauren. You get the middle bed,” she said. She pointed to a bed that had a stack of folders with my name on it. She seemed nice, but she was not as excited to see me as I was to see her. She was the only person who came to Girl’s State from her school, though.
I continued to make conversation and smiled until my cheeks hurt. I thought about how fast my nervousness turned to happiness and concluded that I deal with loneliness by smiling. Eventually, Lauren began to feel more comfortable with me; I believe that she was too nervous to be friendly at first. As my first day continued, I noticed how others dealt with being outside of their comfort zone. Our counselor, Helen, coped by being stern. Our Mayor, Mackenzie, coped by being humorous. Some girls asked questions, and others stayed silent; some girls talked about their activities, and others played on their phones. I suppose I was not giving the best impression by taking the time to notice how each person on my floor dealt with being alone and nervous, but I certainly smiled plenty that
A person does not experience many events that shape their life in a large way, whether it be for better or worse. I have had just one major situation that has sculpted me into the person that I am today. In February of 2008, I was diagnosed with a life changing disease; it would relieve me of the agony I had been experiencing for as long as I could remember, but also restrict my diet for the rest of my life.
I’m sure you have had a life changing experience once in your life that was difficult to face. The idea of life changing experiences was showed in Hatchet by Gary Paulsen, Dragonwings by Laurence Yep, and Eleven By Sandra Cisneros. Brian, from Hatchet, Moon Shadow, from Dragonwings and Rachel from Eleven all faced life-changing experiences that had a direct impact on their lives.
There are various changes that can occur in an individual’s life. Some variations are very little and would not affect your lifecycle very greatly. Nevertheless, other events could be very significant and could change a person’s entire life, such as marrying, giving birth to the baby, or losing someone special. The important event that transformed my life is coming to the United States of America to get education and to study. When I first arrived in this country, I comprehended that an incredible change would happen in my life both mentally and physically. After living more than one year in the United States, I definitely believe that moving to the United States is an advantageous change for me. This change offers me an opportunity to live a healthy lifestyle as well as a new way of thinking that are significant for me and the most importantly it provided me a better education in a simple way.
Most people can say they have experienced a life-changing or a surreal moment or event that seems to stop even time itself. Moments like these can change your entire perception of life events and may also tweak your personality.
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