For many, the seven years of bad luck from breaking a mirror would be much preferred over honestly looking at it’s reflection. We can be comfortable with a bit of bad luck while having the crutch that we are “doing just fine”. Alternatively, self-evaluation can be difficult. Often we believe that we have little to improve, but more commonly, we believe that we can make improvements but have no concrete goals or traits to improve. We will explore some tools that will present us with solutions to this conundrum.
We often look at ourselves through our built in psychological mirror and lie. Honest self-evaluation can hurt, but in this game, there is no gain without pain. Belief and fact are often victims of convenient substitution. We like label our beliefs as facts when it fits our wants or needs. Our inner dialogue is a strange juxtaposition of persuasiveness and gullibility, and we often fall prey to the effects of this dynamic. I once had a friend that continually complained that no one was as optimistic as he was. Without true self-evaluation, we will only sink deeper into the comfortable quicksand of our illusions.
Sometimes we are compelled to evaluation through feedback from others, other times by our own observation. Evaluation set on by interaction with o...
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...ng that each step is separate and builds on the others shows us one additional point to consider: detail.
Da Vinci and Einstein did not become renowned for their disregard for detail. Without embracing detail, they would not have had the advancements they did. When proving a theory, if a scientist finds that his hypothesis fails once, they must abandon it and devise a new plan. Our development depends on our embracement of detail. If we find that our success recipe fails under a certain set of circumstances, we must return to our evaluation and find the detail we missed. This is an unending process that will yield continual results with continual effort.
Take a look in the internal mirror and observe. Leave your assumptions somewhere you can’t get to. Be honest with yourself. The fastest way to failure is to reject reality. Find reality, accept it, and change it.
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