Summary Of Matt Chandler's The Mingling Of Souls

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Marriage is something most people do but few do it well. If a couple is not looking at divorce papers that are probably seeking marriage counseling. If they are not screaming to the top of their lungs at each other they are probably sneaking out to lie in someone else’s arms. If they are not physically abusing one or the other they are probably being mentally abusive. If a couple is not saying hurtful things to each other they are probably not saying anything at all because why would they when the other is not going to listen anyways. We have all been in or seen relationships struggle with these kinds of things. This big question is where did they go wrong? I think the answer to that question lies in Matt Chandler’s book The Mingling of Souls. Chandler’s answer to the question above is that if a couple wants to have a truly successful marriage they must follow God’s design for marriage. Now Chandler is in no way implying that a couple will not struggle if they do it God’s way but they will be able to get through those struggles together. This review is not a summary of the book but it will discuss the strength and weaknesses of …show more content…

What I mean by this is because the book is so straight forward with the development of a godly relationship that it never really talks about how someone might redeem their relationship they have not followed all the “right ways”. I feel like if I was in a relationship that had already been sexually active but not married, and someone give me this book to read, I would maybe feel like there is no hope because I did not do it God’s way. Now I know Matt Chandler would totally agree that there is hope and redemption no matter what a couple has done. It just seems to that the book might not be as effective for a couple who has made mistakes in their

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